Virgin help :P

[tillylouisesimes]

My boyfreind wants my to have sex with him and im 100% ready :). But how long after i have sex will it hurt and will it hurt while have sex? also will i bleed straight away or how long after will i start to bleed?!? and will i defo bleed?
thanks in advance :D xx

[CassieWTF]

My boyfreind wants my to have sex with him and im 100% ready :). But how long after i have sex will it hurt and will it hurt while have sex? also will i bleed straight away or how long after will i start to bleed?!? and will i defo bleed?
thanks in advance :D xx

Why not take care of getty rid of your cherry beforehand. I have freinds, that had it removed by a gynocologist, that's the easiest way. Others of my freinds, masturbate with things like hairbrush handles, candles, or dildos. So you could do it that way, if you can't gave a gynocologist do it. Then when you are with yor boyfreind you don't have to worry about pain or bleeding.

[screamtobeheard]

My boyfreind wants my to have sex with him and im 100% ready :). But how long after i have sex will it hurt and will it hurt while have sex? also will i bleed straight away or how long after will i start to bleed?!? and will i defo bleed?
thanks in advance :D xx

No, you won't definitely bleed. It varies from person to person. It may or may not hurt. Again, it just depends on the person.

I neither bled nor had any pain during or after my first time, but I've heard of both happening.

[tillylouisesimes]

Why not take care of getty rid of your cherry beforehand. I have freinds, that had it removed by a gynocologist, that's the easiest way. Others of my freinds, masturbate with things like hairbrush handles, candles, or dildos. So you could do it that way, if you can't gave a gynocologist do it. Then when you are with yor boyfreind you don't have to worry about pain or bleeding.

ii didn't think you could get it removed :) i might try that,, i don't think i could masturabate with a hairbrush :S have you ever tried it ???,, thank you :D xxx

[Maria_Lopez]

ii didn't think you could get it removed :) i might try that,, i don't think i could masturabate with a hairbrush :S have you ever tried it ???,, thank you :D xxx

Well technically it is not removed it is just opened for you. The reason a girl would bleed is from the hymen tears or rips instead of stretching. Sounds badder then it is. It is a very thin piece of flesh so nothing bad. But yes a doctor could medically split or "remove" it in the clinical office.

I personally agree with others that unless you have a family or religious reason to not, then getting accustomed to vaginal penetration on your own through masterbation is a very good choice. You can go at your own pace and use the sized object you feel good with to get accustomed.

If you don't want to masterbate first then I would say that if you are ready then do not worry too much about that aspect. Just make sure you are not rushed and are relaxed so you do not be tense up. I hope this helps.:)

[CassieWTF]

ii didn't think you could get it removed :) i might try that,, i don't think i could masturabate with a hairbrush :S have you ever tried it ???,, thank you :D xxx

My freinds us a hairbrush, but I've never tried it, I still have my cherry. Besides I'm only into girls, so I'm proably never going to have a cock in me.

I've never put anything in my pussy when I masturbate. How do you masturbate now?

[GigglyAbby]

As stated -- each person will respond differently to their first time since their hymen could've been broken before [tampons -- sports --bike and horseback riding].

Here are some things that could help you:
*Consider foreplay
*Consider lubrication to give you a lesser chance of being dry
*Relax
*See if he can go slow and be gentle