Horny When Single...(Gay)

[Biscuithead13]

So I havent had a bf for 3 months and I got used to always having had one cuz i hadnt been single for more than like 2 or 3 weeks at a time for the last year or so....now I dont know what to do about myself sexually. I have to have an actual person to fantasize about and it has to be someone I can actually envision something happening with them (in otherwords a gay or bi guy) but I feel guilty thinking about any of my friends or boys I've done stuff with on skype and stuff because they are usually just bicurious so i feel guilty cuz I'd never actually have them. I have a friend from school I experimented with but I feel extrememly guilty thinking about him in any way especially sexually, and hes just bicuirous hed never date a guy hes said that. So in other words, Im unsure what to do cuz im always horny now and have nowhere for it to go, and i jackoff 1-2 times a day but it isnt even enjoyable at all :/ I wanna cut back or something on how much I jack off cuz im just jacking off like a single loser and I've never been in this posistion until now

[Lego]

Well it'll be ok Dude I've been single my whole life haha kinda sucks but you'll pull through and find someone man. In the mean time, I know what you mean about feeling guilty so i dunno maybe you'll like watching porn or something to bring the thrill back into it?

[Biscuithead13]

I watch porn but its pointless cuz theres no emotion to it :/

[sdude]

So I havent had a bf for 3 months and I got used to always having had one cuz i hadnt been single for more than like 2 or 3 weeks at a time for the last year or so....now I dont know what to do about myself sexually. I have to have an actual person to fantasize about and it has to be someone I can actually envision something happening with them (in otherwords a gay or bi guy) but I feel guilty thinking about any of my friends or boys I've done stuff with on skype and stuff because they are usually just bicurious so i feel guilty cuz I'd never actually have them. I have a friend from school I experimented with but I feel extrememly guilty thinking about him in any way especially sexually, and hes just bicuirous hed never date a guy hes said that. So in other words, Im unsure what to do cuz im always horny now and have nowhere for it to go, and i jackoff 1-2 times a day but it isnt even enjoyable at all :/ I wanna cut back or something on how much I jack off cuz im just jacking off like a single loser and I've never been in this posistion until now

It's ok man, you need to cut yourself some slack on what you get horny about, there is nothing wrong about fantasizing on other guys, I know it suks after having a relationship and replacing the lovemaking with sex...it doesn't feel like anything but a quick release. Been there, hate that! You need to realize that sex and love can be separate things, and it may not be as fulfilling in an emotional sense, but can be really therapeutic for you till the real thing comes along...Love yourself first man and give yourself a break. The guilt thing needs to come off u and let yourself love you and whoever strikes your fancy...gay, bi or straight, there are some amazing guys out there that would love to have your sexy self for a hot night with you. Talk to me anytime man....stay cool...

[Biscuithead13]

First of all thank you! I guess I should just go with what my mind wants instead of fighting it. Thinking bout my friend who i experimented with gives me extreme pleasure, but once im done i feel nothing but guilt.

[sdude]

First of all thank you! I guess I should just go with what my mind wants instead of fighting it. Thinking bout my friend who i experimented with gives me extreme pleasure, but once im done i feel nothing but guilt.

I had a friend like that who made me feel guilty cause he did afterwards, till I found out he had been fantasizing about doing it AGAIN with me!!!Then I got over it and I still sometimes think of his big cock when I am horny!!

[Biscuithead13]

I understan Im the same way with my friend but to me its the emotional part affecting me, hes hot but at some point you cant keep sacrificing emotions for sexual pleasure.

[SniperKing]

You shouldn't feel guilty...