Girl problems... She doesnt text first anymore. Real confused!

[lookado]

A certain someone came onto me and we hit it off. We hung out a few times and it was quite obvious that we both liked each other. Our second time hanging out led us to getting to know each other more by getting personal. She liked all the qualities i have and she wanted me to know that she had a lot of guy friends and she followed that up by are you a jealous type, etc, etc. Then the 3rd time we got a little more personal by getting to know each other and what not. I told her i stutter, and she said she was glad i told her that and then later on i asked if it was a turn off and she said it didn't bother her at all. We got into a texting convo a few weeks ago and she said she liked me but didnt want to rush into anything and said we've only hung out a few times. she said that she wasnt ready for a relationship but she still wanted to talk to me. Even tho shes been single for a while she got out of a very long relationship. From the beginning we didn't text constantly but she put more effort into it i guess. But ever since that 3rd time we hung out its been kinda fading. Although we did setup a day to go out and i said we could call it a date if she wanted and she said "thats fine lol" Whenever i text her she usually replies instantly or in a matter of minutes and she keeps the conversation going. Her replies are never dull or simple. She asks like how/when/why/etc. She told me "i just want to let you know that im the type of person to do my own thing, so im sorry if i dont text you a lot and stuff. i mostly just forget" I understand, i mean i got my own things to do and she has her own thing. She stopped texting me first tho. It's been the whole day and she hasnt texted anything. I'm trying to see if she will text me first or does she want ME to text her? I dont get it. I need advice!

[SamanthaMaciel]

dude... dont be stupid... she has a life.... dont over thnk it and just text her.... ur worrying too much.... she cant always text u first... go for it dude

[Tylergp]

If you find your self always the first to start the conversation, then wait for her to text you first. It will drive her crazy wondering why you're not texting her first and also if you text her and she doesn't reply, don't send more texts... Just wait it out.

Btw I'm here for more advice if you need it

Merged, don't double post/Harry

[lookado]

Well i waited a day to see if she would text me but she didn't. Although this week is very busy for both of us i know she has time to text... Anyways the next day we saw each other but we couldnt really talk but i waved at her and she waved back smiling. Later that day i texted her and she replied within minutes. We had a small conversation and then i ended the convo with a statement kind of and she never replied to that. I'm pretty positive she used to reply to that type of stuff when we first started texting. I really dont get it! We're supposed to go out next weekend but i feel like if i stop texting her she wont text me. I feel like i should ask if she still feels the same way as she did a week ago... She didnt reply with one word texts also, she actually wanted to know what i did the other day and what not.

[PinkFloyd]

DUDE. I've been with the same girl for over 2 years now. We still text non stop. I am usually the one who starts the texting convos because it's just how shit works sometimes. You can't worry too much! SHe has stuff to do in her life.

[Tylergp]

The whole point of what I said is because you cannot seem clingy! That's why you have to wait a little before you text her because it makes her wonder what you're doing that you're not texting her and when you do it makes her super happy, also when she texts you wait a little till you reply some times so yet again it makes her want you to text her

[lookado]

Im not clingy what so ever, cuz im also busy usually. Whenever we're doing something it takes us between 1 hour to 4 hours to reply. There is times where we text within minutes though.

[Tylergp]

I'm not saying you are, in just saying you need to make sure you're not..
I mean I'm clearly not there but say you text her back and she doesn't reply for awhile don't text her asking like if she's still there or anything like that within reason, it's kinda difficult to help with this being I don't know the conversations, I don't know her personality, etc.. So I'm doing the best I can with that I know from previous experiences

[Burn007]

just text her first and forget about this :P Its a big stupidity,its all ok but girls like when we text first,my gf told me phew days ago that she hated that when we still just liked eachother she always started the conversation :) So relax its all good just text first and keep the conversation going,thats how stuff ussually works,ps she might been in same situation as you now,watch out for tah :D

[Croconaw]

Just text her first. She might be busy.

[CookieBase]

I have been through something very similar and you know it just came down to something sooooo simple. Recap: you are waiting for her to text first. Maybe to see if she really does want to talk or whatever. But the answer may be that she wants you to text first. So many people don't wish to text a person 1st in case they annoy them or something silly. So you no what i'm gonna take my own advice now and text a girl. Just text her dude, she could be waiting for you!:P