Condoms or not? Better without?

[giggles2]

Can you really tell a difference without a condom? Is it easier to orgasm without? Can you feel his cum inside? Is it a good feeling or a bad feeling?

[GigglyAbby]

Can you really tell a difference without a condom? Yes it feels more natural [better feeling] and it feels less constrained than with a condom.
Is it easier to orgasm without? to me it is a little easier to
Can you feel his cum inside? Typically yes


It's a personal choice and if you choose to do this -- you may want to consider:
*Strongly consider getting on birth control and follow the recommendations as to when it's safe to rely on said birth control alone [without having to use a condom or other method]. Adding a condom doesn't hurt.
*Hormonal birth control -- [pill -- Nuvaring -- patch -- IUD like - etc] can be more reliable and healthier than spermicide [sponge -insert - suppository - gel for diaphragm].
*Having him pull out is the worst form of birth control.
*Being tested for STIs and HIV/AIDS is more recommended as you're at more at risk for one of these [though they recommend testing when you're sexually active or have risk factors such as unprotected sex -- sex with someone who has had same-sex sex -- multiple partners].
*Be open with your partner about what you expect and your sexual history if it's relevant.
*Consider using a condom with a new sexual partner as you may not know if he has any diseases.

[giggles2]

Can condoms irritate you? What does a guys cum feel like inside of you? Can his cum make you orgasm?

[GigglyAbby]

Can condoms irritate you? If you're allergic to latex it can cause irritation -- if there's not enough lubrication [condom or not] it's possible dryness can irritate you.

What does a guys cum feel like inside of you? Typically wet and sticky

Can his cum make you orgasm? The act of him orgasming [sensations and movements] can but him cumming probably won't.

[giggles2]

So feeling his cum inside of you is not enough to make you cum? I would think everything is moist down their that you could not feel his cum? Is it a warm feeling?

[giggles2]

Maybe I should go on the pill? Feeling his cum is it a good feeling or bad? So it is his movements rather than feeling his cum inside of you that makes you cum?

[emily-candace]

I'm still a virgin so I can't tell you anything about condoms but my mom says that most guys really have no idea how to put a condom on correctly. Do they have directions on the package and she said if I was really smart when I started having sex I would carry my own condom. Not a fan of that either. LOL

[honeybear]

I prefer no condoms (I'm on the pill) but I only go raw with my bf...anyone else is condoms

[giggles2]

Is it true that when a guy cums inside of you that his cum can trigger a different type of orgasm? Can it trigger an A-spot orgasm? Prostaglandins in his cum can trigger a super intense orgasm when he cums inside of you? Feeling his cum inside of you makes you cum? Is it normal to feel his cum inside of you? Is it a good feeling? Warm?

[Reanne]

I'm still a virgin so I can't tell you anything about condoms but my mom says that most guys really have no idea how to put a condom on correctly. Do they have directions on the package and she said if I was really smart when I started having sex I would carry my own condom. Not a fan of that either. LOL

Normally if you buy a box of condoms there are instructions. If you get one in a vending machine normally there isn't instructions.

Basically you have to be careful of how you rip the package of the condom, just rip the corner and using teeth isn't a good practice. It needs to be around the right way so the tip is the right way and the condom can unroll over the penis, when you do that you should pinch the tip before rolling it down the penis so air doesn't get in and then roll it down and the tip will fill with air and your ready to go.

Personally is't better without a condom because you feel the friction and it's skin on skin. I find with condoms it dulls the feeling. But you should use them when you first have a relationship and then when your in a trusting relationship I think that's when you can stop using them and go on the pill or use other contraceptives.

[Maria_Lopez]

Can you really tell a difference without a condom? Yes it feels more natural [better feeling] and it feels less constrained than with a condom.
Is it easier to orgasm without? to me it is a little easier to
Can you feel his cum inside? Typically yes


It's a personal choice and if you choose to do this -- you may want to consider:
*Strongly consider getting on birth control and follow the recommendations as to when it's safe to rely on said birth control alone [without having to use a condom or other method]. Adding a condom doesn't hurt.
*Hormonal birth control -- [pill -- Nuvaring -- patch -- IUD like - etc] can be more reliable and healthier than spermicide [sponge -insert - suppository - gel for diaphragm].
*Having him pull out is the worst form of birth control.
*Being tested for STIs and HIV/AIDS is more recommended as you're at more at risk for one of these [though they recommend testing when you're sexually active or have risk factors such as unprotected sex -- sex with someone who has had same-sex sex -- multiple partners].
*Be open with your partner about what you expect and your sexual history if it's relevant.
*Consider using a condom with a new sexual partner as you may not know if he has any diseases.

I very much agree with this reply and think it is great advice. As to the sensation of using or not using a condom: yes sometime I can tell the difference and sometimes not. But not using one make the experience more spontaneous because you don't have to stop for the boyfriend to put it on. As to feeling him cum inside. I would say that I sometimes can feel the actual cum as I notice a lot more moisture or lubricaiton or even hotness of temperature inside. But usually I think it is not actually the fluid i feel as much as the pulsation of his penis inside me. You will feel that with or without a condom so I'm not sure that matters.

Mostly I believe that it is a safety issue of being safe with sex and not getting diseases or pregnant. Hope this helps. :D

[giggles2]

Thanks so much!

[NotShortButFunsized]

Is it true that when a guy cums inside of you that his cum can trigger a different type of orgasm? Can it trigger an A-spot orgasm? Prostaglandins in his cum can trigger a super intense orgasm when he cums inside of you? Feeling his cum inside of you makes you cum? Is it normal to feel his cum inside of you? Is it a good feeling? Warm?


Semen on its own can not make you orgasm, so if you took some semen (just the liquid itself) and smeared it inside yourself basically nothing would happen other than you getting pregnant and an std or something. its how he cums inside you (penetration, friction, rubbing, etc.) that can make you orgasm, not the semen itself. Any difference in the orgasm semen causes is purely mental, because you know his semen is inside so it feels more special to you, however the semen did not somehow chemically cause you to orgasm stronger.

experts arent even sure the a-spot exists. some believe it does, some don't.

prostaglandins are not anything special and are not found only in boy's semen, they have a number of jobs having nothing to do with sex or reproduction. according to wikipedia, these functions include:

cause constriction or dilation in vascular smooth muscle cells
cause aggregation or disaggregation of platelets
sensitize spinal neurons to pain
induce labor
decrease intraocular pressure
regulate inflammatory mediation
regulate calcium movement
control hormone regulation
control cell growth
acts on thermoregulatory center of hypothalamus to produce fever
acts on mesangial cells in the glomerulus of the kidney to increase glomerular filtration rate
acts on parietal cells in the stomach wall to inhibit acid secretion
brain masculinization (in rats at least)


in other words, while they do have something to do with childbirth, they have no effect on orgasm or the act of sex itself. after all, if prostaglandins were the eternal secret to making girls orgasm, dont you think guys would all know about it, and medicine companies would be making millions off of it by now?

[giggles2]

I thought that his semen which contains prostaglandins that cause uterine contractions can cause the same contractions that can cause a super deep full body orgasm deep in your vagina for an a-spot orgasm.

[giggles2]

I prefer no condoms (I'm on the pill) but I only go raw with my bf...anyone else is condoms
Can you feel his cum inside you or is it just his contractions? What does his cum feel like? Can you tell a difference with his cum inside of you? Can his cum inside of you trigger an orgasm for you?

[Taryn98]

I hate using condoms because the latex dries me out after a few minutes. So I either have to use lube or go bareback. If it's someone I know and trust I just go without since I'm on the pill. If I don't know the guy well, I still use a condom for safety.

[hotgirlwtits]

Can you really tell a difference without a condom? yes it feels alot better
Is it easier to orgasm without? For me, a little
Can you feel his cum inside? if he does come inside you than yes

[honeybear]

Can you feel his cum inside you or is it just his contractions? What does his cum feel like? Can you tell a difference with his cum inside of you? Can his cum inside of you trigger an orgasm for you?

I can definitely feel a guy cumming in me and no doesn't cause me to cum ...feels all squishy and wet lol!

[Stephanie_]

I love the feeling of cum inside me.

[Kelsey1031]

I also enjoy the feeling of cum inside me, but i also really enjoy if a guy uses one of those ribbed condoms

[Kuurachan]

Just wait till you get married. Then you will have a partner for all the rest of your life rather then now & then. You won't have to waste money on condoms which don't actually always keep you from getting pregnant. It's not just a religious thing, it's just the best thing to do.

[txtwister13]

i really cant feel any difference between using a condom and going bareback ... except when my guy cums, if we're goin bareback i can usually feel the head of his penis get big and feel his cum squirt inside me, i obviously cant feel that if he's wearing a condom

[Lizzielikesboth]

2 things I like a about condoms are, if used right you will not get knocked up and helps with STD's

[giggles2]

When his cum squirts inside of you can you feel the warmth and stickiness? Can it make you orgasm from feeling his cum inside of you? Is it a good feeling when his cum is released deep inside of you?

Can you really feel the head of his penis getting bigger right before he cums?

Can you actually feel his cum shoot inside of you or is that completely made up? Does his cum feel warmer inside of you? Can it make you cum from feeling it?

What does his cum feel like actually. Is is really squishy or a good feeling? Seems like it would be kind of a weird feeling? Is it really a good feeling?

i really cant feel any difference between using a condom and going bareback ... except when my guy cums, if we're goin bareback i can usually feel the head of his penis get big and feel his cum squirt inside me, i obviously cant feel that if he's wearing a condom
Is it a really great feeling to have his cum inside of you? Could you orgasm from feeling it? How could you tell he came inside of you? What does it typically feel like? Some say warm?


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[giggles2]

When his cum squirts inside of you can you feel the warmth and stickiness? Can it make you orgasm from feeling his cum inside of you? Is it a good feeling when his cum is released deep inside of you?

Can you really feel the head of his penis getting bigger right before he cums?

Can you actually feel his cum shoot inside of you or is that completely made up? Does his cum feel warmer inside of you? Can it make you cum from feeling it?

What does his cum feel like actually. Is is really squishy or a good feeling? Seems like it would be kind of a weird feeling? Is it really a good feeling?
s it a really great feeling to have his cum inside of you? Could you orgasm from feeling it? How could you tell he came inside of you? What does it typically feel like? Some say warm?

[NotShortButFunsized]

When his cum squirts inside of you can you feel the warmth and stickiness? Can it make you orgasm from feeling his cum inside of you? Is it a good feeling when his cum is released deep inside of you?

Can you really feel the head of his penis getting bigger right before he cums?

Can you actually feel his cum shoot inside of you or is that completely made up? Does his cum feel warmer inside of you? Can it make you cum from feeling it?

What does his cum feel like actually. Is is really squishy or a good feeling? Seems like it would be kind of a weird feeling? Is it really a good feeling?
s it a really great feeling to have his cum inside of you? Could you orgasm from feeling it? How could you tell he came inside of you? What does it typically feel like? Some say warm?

Haven't you asked just about all of these questions like twelve other times in about as many other threads? some of them you even asked twice in this post alone...and almost all have been thouroughly answered and replied to as well. I'm not being rude or trying to overstep my bounds, but it's starting to get in the way of the original questions

[giggles2]

i really cant feel any difference between using a condom and going bareback ... except when my guy cums, if we're goin bareback i can usually feel the head of his penis get big and feel his cum squirt inside me, i obviously cant feel that if he's wearing a condom
Does it always hurt when it first goes inside of you? Can you tell he is about ready to cum? When he first penetrates you is that the best part? Do you feel different after he has been inside of you for the first time? So do you feel mainly the head of his penis getting bigger or him squirting his cum inside of you? Which is more likely to make you cum? Feeling the head of his penis getting bigger or feeling his cum squirt inside? What is the best way to get his cum out? Can you just keep his cum inside of you? Anybody have problems with it leaking out later? Jenn do you really feel him spurt inside of you?

[giggles2]

i really cant feel any difference between using a condom and going bareback ... except when my guy cums, if we're goin bareback i can usually feel the head of his penis get big and feel his cum squirt inside me, i obviously cant feel that if he's wearing a condom

Is it the squirting inside of you or him getting bigger that feels better? Everybody says it feels warm when a guy cums. Is that every time he cums inside of you? I am guessing it is not the liquid that makes you cum but just the fact that he is getting bigger? You can really feel it squirt?

[jheaven96]

I prefer no condoms (I'm on the pill) but I only go raw with my bf...anyone else is condoms

i do the same

[Mob Boss]

Op has been banned so this is being closed.

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