I don't know when to orgasm, please help!!!!!!!!!!

[krodos]

I want to have good strong orgasms everytime.

I know that waiting a few days in between, or doing kegel exercises can make them feel better.

But here's where I get confused::

I have read online and there are hundreds of things that all contribute to how good an orgasm feels. I can't help but think that if I don't consider all of these things, then it might not feel as good as I want it to.

I keep trying to predict how good it will feel if I have an orgasm at a certain time because of the contributory factors I know that affect it.

I want them to feel really good each time.

If I make sure I leave it a few days each time to ensure this, why couldn't I equally be only having an orgasm when I think my testostorone levels are high, or when I don't think I've been feeling stressed out. Or maybe even when I only last a certain amount of time/

There are so many things to consider and I can't help but try to work out how good it will feel from these things, just to try to avoid the times that I wouldn't want to orgasm/

I don't know what to do, any advice?

[gladiator528]

Don't make it into a science. Just wait a few days in between and last for at least half an hour. That's a guaranteed good orgasm every time. You're overcomplicating it.

[krodos]

But what about things like worry and stress affecting it?

I don't want to have to wait a few days and last half hour or more EVERYTIME.

Then there are things like what kind of technique you are using etc.

[HockeyLovesMe]

im not sure sry i cant help for me i jst do it but sometimes i do it and then wait a bit then do it again so that mite help dont do it all at once

[krodos]

Anyone else got any help?

[Jabbawocke]

here boyo. How old are you? And uhm. You're probably rushing into a bit. Idk if stress affects orgasms...

Try edging. Its when you stop jacking right when youre about to orgasm and wait a while before starting again. It feel really good when you do decide to orgasm. Also, watching porn is better than just imaging stuff. Itll help you orgasm better.

[johnsmith1]

First off, don't stress- relax and enjoy the moment.
Secondly, yes doing it sevral times in one day depletse what we have so for the 5th time in a day for example, there's very little cum and very little pleasure, so leaving it for a while can make it better too.
Thirdly, if you have managed to last a couple of days, go slow ("stop and go" even), and make it last. I feel going for a "quickie" is fun, but sometimes just not the same.

[StoppingTime]

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