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Attax
December 10th, 2007, 10:52 PM
Ok, well I am deciding whether to come out, I have been able to do it with only 3 people, 2 are girls and one is my gay friend. I am not sure what to say and do I am scared about coming out about my bisexuality. Please help me I want advice about what you did and feared when this happened to you.

ideasman
December 10th, 2007, 11:15 PM
it all depends on your own story...
When i decided to come out, it was at a point in life when i thought i was strong enough to wit-stand any form of trouble that came my way, whether it be through my parents and friends etc..
My parents were fairly angry about the whole situation and it seemed as though they would never have gotten over it, but parents are made to love and after 3-4 months, they got over the situation and realised i was their son, and they loved me no matter who i chose to sleep with
My friends on the other hand, many were accepting, some where not, its kind of a process that lets you see who your real friends are (as lame and "after schiool special" as that sounds) and who would stick by you in such a landmark time in your life..
You'll feel free, unburdened and ready to take on the world..only if your ready..
Let me know how it goes..

Malcolm Tucker
December 11th, 2007, 02:25 AM
There is no rush. Leave it until you are comfortable with telling the masses not while you are still fearing the consequences. Wait, there is no hurry to tell anyone else.

tito
December 11th, 2007, 02:37 AM
theres no hurry i only came out this year
i knew i was gay like when i was 9 years old so theres nuitng to hurry about