To all you confused people ...

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Hey you! Yeah, you! The confused person! Listen up, because it's annoying how much people are saying how they "think they're gay". There's a way to be sure.

Most people on VT think they're gay or bi because they're turned on by someone of the same sex, or they have a crush. That doesn't mean you're gay. It means you like someone of the same gender, nothing more nothing less.

If you're confused, just answer these questions;

Are you physically attracted to the same sex?
Are you emotionally attracted to the same sex?
Do you fantasize about the same sex?
Can you imagine being with someone of the same sex for the rest of your life?

If you answered yes to at least 3 of these questions, then you are probably gay or bisexual! Congratulations to you! No more confusion.

If you answered no to 3 or more, then you are straight.

Either way is fine, and it just makes you who you are :D

[Croconaw]

Thanks for the guide. There were way too many threads asking about this. Maybe this will help clear things up. Sticky, maybe? :P

[Josh Morgan]

I kind of really wish everyone was automatically Bi. Seems like all this gay st8 stuff would go away. I think I might be Bi, but favor girls. But at the moment I have a crush on my best buddy truth be told. Beautiful Native American boy. I think everyone no matter how st8 must find him very attractive.

[chargersfan]

I kind of really wish everyone was automatically Bi. Seems like all this gay st8 stuff would go away. I think I might be Bi, but favor girls. But at the moment I have a crush on my best buddy truth be told. Beautiful Native American boy. I think everyone no matter how st8 must find him very attractive.

I'm in a similar situation as you are, although I'm sure about my sexuality. A lot of people don't know that their is a sexuality scale. I believe it goes from 1-6
It's called the Kinsey Scale

0)Completely Straight
1)Mostly Straight but somewhat attracted to the same sex incidentally
2)Bisexual with a slight preference towards the opposite sex
3)Completely Bisexual and like both sexes equally
4)Bisexual with a slight preference towards the same sex
5)Mostly homosexual but attracted to the opposite sex incidentally
6)Completely Homosexual


You sound like you are a 1 on that scale.

[Jake Morgan]

i like that scale. although i might be asexual, so i might not fit in it. i know joshy and ezra have a big crush on each other. i think it's cool and they're just young boys is all.

[chargersfan]

i like that scale. although i might be asexual, so i might not fit in it. i know joshy and ezra have a big crush on each other. i think it's cool and they're just young boys is all.

Actually there is an x on the scale meaning asexual I just didn't include it. The scale doesn't work for scaling Pansexuals though. But it works in this case.

[Abyssal Echo]

No confusion here I'm 100% Gay and out. The answer to all 4 is yes.

[RyanJF1]

No confusion here I'm 100% Gay and out. The answer to all 4 is yes.

Basically me.

In my opinion, you don't really need to figure out what sexuality you are. Calling yourself gay, bi, straight, or curious is just a label you put upon yourself to tell other people. You don't really need to be labeled at such a young age. Love who you want to love.

For me, I know I'm gay. So, it's a little different as I've already figured myself out.

[Lovelife090994]

Fervent and blunt post. I am definitely Straight according to that... just a weird one...

[Lovelife090994]

No confusion here I'm 100% Gay and out. The answer to all 4 is yes.

If you don't mind my asking, I forgot your age?