I want a GF

[HiThere]

Well, I'm 14, and going to turn 15 in two weeks. Almost EVERYBODY at my school has (or has had) a girl friend, and it seems that sometimes, I'm the only person alone. I would really like to get a girl friend, but theres only two main things holding me back. My parents, and me. My parents aren't the coolest, the smartest, or really anything. It seems that most of the time, they don't really care about me, which sort of makes me think that they won't care if I were to get a girl. Other times, though, I see my mom and step dad treating my baby brother like they used to me, and it gets me all depressed, and makes me not really want to get a girl friend. My other problem is me. I don't hang out with anybody, I'm unattractive, and spend all of my free time on the computer, programming. I'm fun, and funny, and pretty weird, but only show that around people I know.

Anyway, my main delema is this. Do I just grow up, stop caring about my parents, and get a date, and to do so should I be somebody I'm not, just to get somebody? I just want somebody, I would never think it would be this hard.

[Hyper]

You grow up when you are who you REALLY are.

[0=]

You shouldn't go hunting for a girlfriend. Just make friends with people and you'll find someone.

[Lifesreject]

never be somebody your not. just be yourself and you will find that perfect someone. Just go out a bit and get to know people.

[whiterecyclables94]

eventually its going to happen no matter what.....you shoudn't change who you are inside for a girlfriend because in the end it will just make you feel empty inside...If your fun and funny then show them that you are fun and funny but dont change who you are and eventually you will find the person that you want to go out with

[A.J.]

Just because you grow up and change dosent mean you cant have fun or hate your parents. Everyone changes and there isnt anything you can d about it. I reccomend maybe joining an activity at school or something, go out and meet people. thats all i have to say

[ThatOneGuy]

Just be funny if you are, dont worry about it, and parents dont matter in something like this. Get girls msn or aim messenger things since your on the computer alot.

(didnt noticed your not allowed to use links XD)

[RaisingSand]

Everyone feels like this, and to be honest, it sucks if you aren't in a situation where you can really get a girlfriend/boyfriend. At this age, all you can really do is wait (and yes, I'm am aware that totally sucks).

[archangel]

Haha, yeah it is a very bad situation. Mainly, if your parents arent either all for it, or will at least get out of the way, its not worth getting a girlfriend because it will only be a tease when you can never hang out with her because of your parents.

[Glasgow]

Well, I actually don't want a girlfriend. Trust me, you have tons of time to start a relationship with a girl and commit to it. I've been in one in my life and it was alot of work and really zoned me out with the rest of my life. It was all about her, and after I realised it and I really didn't like it. So for the last year and abit i've been avoiding relationships, i still talk to girls frequently and flirt with them but I just don't want a girlfriend at this age. And you should be the same way. Know what your getting yourself into before you get into it. And most of all don't change who you are just to get a girlfriend, your time will come and you will meet a girl and you will be happy, whether its this month or in a few years. Just wait

[LeRoy_Fan]

I say, although your situation sounds a heck of alot like mine, just stick with it. Don't get yourself into a position of "I have to have a girlfriend!" because, as soon as you two break up, it won't be pretty.

Having a GF is nice and all, but don't make it a need. They won't always be there, your friends should be.

[goin to work]

i got the same promlem

[Mirataku]

Dont worry, from the ages of 11-15 i never had a gf or bf, now im 16 i have had 7 relationships ^^, don't worry, the time will come :)

[Serenity]

Dont worry, from the ages of 11-15 i never had a gf or bf, now im 16 i have had 7 relationships

I'm sorry, but I don't think that's really something to be proud of. Relationships aren't things that you collect so that you can brag about how many you've had, and having seven relationships in a YEAR just screams immaturity and inability to have a real relationship in the first place. If you are attracted to a person, etc, then yeah great date them. But don't just go out with people for the sake of going out with people.

[Camazotz]

Be yourself, and go to school activites making friends. Being yourself is important. Otherwise, you might get someone who's nothing like you. Make friends with people who like the same things you do.

[ktkurbst0mp]

Be yourself.
Be honest.
Talk to her first.

[lolboi06]

just be ur self and every thing will fall into place and try to go to school activities too so u can meet new ppl

[Gumleaf]

lolboi06, please don't post in old threads.

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