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LouBerry
May 25th, 2013, 10:41 PM
This turned out to be a lot longer than I thought, so if you get bored, pretty much just skip to the end.

Well, I have a friend named Kaitlyn. She's sweet as can be and really sensitive, always upset about something. She just turned seventeen and found out last week that she was going to have a baby girl. She was four and a half months pregnant. Friday, she was going to work, and apparently had lost control of her truck and ran off the road. She was not wearing her seatbelt, and was thrown out of the windshield after rolling three times.

I got the call thirty minutes later. At the hospital, another friend and I were told that Kaitlyn might not make it through the flight to UAMS, a different hospital two hours away. Also, the doctors told us that MaKaylee hadn't made it through the crash. We could not even believe it.

We didn't follow Kaitlyn's family to the hospital, but stayed in constant contact with them. Upon arriving at UAMS, the team that rushed to her aid discovered that she had a punctured lung, lacerated spleen, and possible damage to her liver. But, they found a faint heartbeat on MaKaylee! So, during the night we are all so excited and start letting ourselves hope that both our girls were going to turn out okay. We lost MaKaylee last night, while I was blogging actually.

This morning, Kaitlyn woke up. She was well enough that she could talk to her sisters, and told them that she didn't just run off the road. Someone ran her off the road. They weren't paying attention, and they killed a baby. Didn't even stay to see if Kaitlyn had survived the crash.

Basically, I'm freaking out. Who does that? Who causes an accident like that and just Walks Away. Shit. I mostly just needed to rant, but seriously if anyone else has had to deal with something like this, how did you get through it?

Horatio Nelson
May 25th, 2013, 10:49 PM
Damn.....That caused some man tears to be shed. :( That is beyond terrible. I don't know what else to say.......sigh.

JayC77
May 25th, 2013, 10:51 PM
Mine wasn't quite as bad, but some guy was drunk and slammed into the car I was in on the highway. The door impaled me and cracked my ribs and the driver kept going and pretended nothing happened. I sort of just walked it off, mostly because they found the guy who was responsible. I know, nowhere near as bad, I kinda hate people sometimes, so hard to find decent people, and then worse, they give a driver's license to nearly anyone. They should have a better screening process before they put someone behind the wheel of a 4000 pound steel box. As you can see, I'm not great with comforting people or making them feel better, but I hope Kaitlyn is going to be ok, and I hope they find the driver of that car.

VictoriaGotaSecret
May 25th, 2013, 11:16 PM
I hope they find that asshole. And to your friend I'm sorry you lost your baby. This idiot deserves some serious time and not even that will fix the broken hearts of everyone involved.

LouBerry
May 25th, 2013, 11:22 PM
I just...I can't believe it. I mean, we were supposed to go baby clothes shopping today. And she just got the crib in her room Thursday. She and her boyfriend were so excited. Who ever did it needs to be locked in a fucking cell for the rest of his life. With no window and a picture of the ultrasound.

The LOLer
May 26th, 2013, 06:54 PM
Who on earth could be that evil? Honestly there's nothing to be said. Sorry.