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clueless_one
May 25th, 2013, 03:07 AM
Sorry if the description is long.

I don't know why but all girls I've really liked have not liked me back and if I tell them how I feel or ask them out they get scared away and I loose a friend.

I've liked three girls and all I've lost there friendship with. Now I like another girl and I'm afraid that if I tell her how I feel or ask her out I will lose another friend.

1st girl I told her I liked her and later tried asking her out but finding out if she wanted to spend some time with me. She said no by telling me to go to the movies with a friend at the time who was a guy. She still talks to me but isn't a good friend after this.

2nd girl I told a friend of mine who passed the news of me liking this girl. She told me that she knew that I liked her and that I was going to ask her out. I asked her out and she said she didn't like me in that way and later she stopped all communication with me and I lost a friend.

3rd girl I told her I liked her and she seemed surprised. After I was waiting for her to tell me how she feels towards me but she didn't. So I couldn't ask her out.

Now the girl I like now. I haven't told her how I feel currently but told her good girl friend and another girl who is my friend. I'm not sure if she really likes me back and am hesitant to ask her out.

So I'm not sure what to do now. Should I just tell her how I feel or ask her out or do both at the same time. I don't want the same thing as the three girls I liked in the past and loose another good friend.

Synyster Shadows
May 25th, 2013, 07:00 AM
there's no rush. I've tried three times but I'm just gonna give it a rest for now. I've realized that i'm just finding the right girls. Your time will come.

chezhans
May 25th, 2013, 07:22 AM
We both have the exact same story...I'm dead set serious.

JayC77
May 25th, 2013, 07:29 AM
"To get thine ends lay bashfulness aside. He that fears to ask doth be denied." -Robert Herrick. Think about what you could gain instead of lose, keep your head up, and don't fear rejection, you might be surprised :)

clueless_one
May 25th, 2013, 07:49 AM
"To get thine ends lay bashfulness aside. He that fears to ask doth be denied." -Robert Herrick. Think about what you could gain instead of lose, keep your head up, and don't fear rejection, you might be surprised :)

i'm fine about being rejected. I just don't want to loose a friend.

Croconaw
May 25th, 2013, 10:04 AM
Yeah. That's a downside. You'll eventually find a girl though

ItsDarien
May 25th, 2013, 11:21 AM
Just keep trying, I had the same problem, but I'm with the love of my life right now, and we were best friends for 3 years almost. It was a rainy night, we were stuck in a public hangout, and we were alone, it was just that "moment" you know? I kissed her, and we've been together for 9 months now. Don't worry, you'll find that one girl that you'll spend the rest of your life with.

~Darien.