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boring_guy
May 23rd, 2013, 05:39 PM
I myself am straight, and have nothing against Homosexuality. I completely support freedom of sexuality, to me there's nothing wrong with going for what makes you happy as long as it doesn't hurt others, and being gay doesn't hurt anything.
But, on this forum, I hardly see any straight threads, and it bugs me. I like helping people out and whatnot, but there doesn't seem to be any 'Straight' outlet here.
Could there maybe be a split section of Teen Sexuality? I don't want to segregate people, but I feel it'd be easier for everyone to get what they need out of the forum.
Just some thoughts, I don't know.
Have a nice day
RyanJF1
May 23rd, 2013, 06:31 PM
You know, you can make your own thread based on straight thoughts.
I wouldn't really think 100% straight people have issues with their sexuality. If you are in need of relationship advice, go here (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=52).
Josh Morgan
May 23rd, 2013, 06:36 PM
I see stuff about dating girls all the time on VT and I've learned a lot from it.
Twilly F. Sniper
May 23rd, 2013, 06:50 PM
This is a SEXUALITY thread isn't it? A majority of sexualities are not heterosexual.
chargersfan
May 23rd, 2013, 07:10 PM
Well nobody said you couldn't start a thread like that.
teen.jpg
May 23rd, 2013, 08:03 PM
You can do that, nobody is stopping you. But most of the people on this sub-forum aren't straight, so keep that in mind.
steellord321
May 23rd, 2013, 10:31 PM
Well no offense yourself, but what outlet do str8 people need because of their sexuality? I mean you can make threads but I'm guessing others are not doing that cuz they don't see the point. There's a relationship forum. Other than girl problems what issue do you have? No one is dumping you as a friend cause youre str8 for example, or forcing you to hide your sexuality etc. Maybe i just don't get it.
chargersfan
May 24th, 2013, 02:13 AM
Well no offense yourself, but what outlet do str8 people need because of their sexuality? I mean you can make threads but I'm guessing others are not doing that cuz they don't see the point. There's a relationship forum. Other than girl problems what issue do you have? No one is dumping you as a friend cause youre str8 for example, or forcing you to hide your sexuality etc. Maybe i just don't get it.
It's not really what he just said, I mean there are some straight people who are just bi-curious or whatever. But I think the main point is that there really just isn't any reason for a straight person to come here. You can make a thread if you can find a decent topic to talk about that has to do with being straight. But it would have to be something that you wouldn't put in the relationships forum. But if you have a legitimate question go ahead and ask, nobody said you couldn't.
Ace of Spades
May 24th, 2013, 02:28 AM
Like those above me have said, nothing is stopping you from making your own thread.
But, there really isn't a need for there to be a straight outlet. The entire world is your outlet. Straight people don't come out as straight, straight people don't get beaten or tormented for being straight. Out of all the sexualities, heterosexuals are the privileged group. Society is heteronormative.
Josh Morgan
May 24th, 2013, 02:40 AM
But I think the main point is that there really just isn't any reason for a straight person to come here.
I'm fairly sure I'm st8 - the st8 curious type. And I'm sympathetic to anyone who's confused about about stuff. Whether it's srt8 or gay stuff doesn't matter to me. I just try to offer whatever help I can to whoever about whatever and also learn.
chargersfan
May 24th, 2013, 02:42 AM
I'm fairly sure I'm st8. But the st8 curious type. But I'm sympathetic to anyone who's confused about about stuff. Whether it's srt8 or gay doesn't matter to me. I just try to offer whatever help I can to whoever about whatever and also learn.
I meant looking for advice probably should have been more specific.
Coolboi
May 24th, 2013, 03:13 AM
there are st8 threads all over vt and if u like start one I could use a new thread to post on .
Josh Morgan
May 24th, 2013, 03:14 AM
I meant looking for advice probably should have been more specific.
I hear what you're saying. I'm still new to all this. Both VT and sexuality. Funny thing is seems a lot of guys wondering about their feelings and relationship with other guys, say they're st8 ironically. I mean I have best friend (st8) that I've been friends with for a long time, that I'm starting to have feelings for... and I wouldn't be wondering the same stuff or asking the same questions if I had those feelings for a girl. The way things are between him and me, I just might be asking questions about our relationship here soon myself.
steellord321
May 24th, 2013, 03:34 AM
It's not really what he just said, I mean there are some straight people who are just bi-curious or whatever. But I think the main point is that there really just isn't any reason for a straight person to come here. You can make a thread if you can find a decent topic to talk about that has to do with being straight. But it would have to be something that you wouldn't put in the relationships forum. But if you have a legitimate question go ahead and ask, nobody said you couldn't.
Well he asked about outlet...I can't think of anything comparable for str8 people that u see posted on this forum. The only threads i've seen are like "I think this guy likes but i'm not gay what do i do??" Which is fine. I'm just curious cuz a split forum of sexuality is like saying we hold them back from posting...and i really don't think thats the case.
boring_guy
May 24th, 2013, 08:21 AM
Hey all,
Thanks for the input, I now have a better view of everything. Really, you all brought up things I didn't think of on my own. It does make sense that I wouldn't be having as much problems.
Well I hope everyone is able to get through problems of their own, good luck to all of you (=
Jake Morgan
May 24th, 2013, 08:24 AM
Hey all,
Thanks for the input, I now have a better view of everything. Really, you all brought up things I didn't think of on my own. It does make sense that I wouldn't be having as much problems.
Well I hope everyone is able to get through problems of their own, good luck to all of you (=
it was a good question and made a good discussion. thanks
chargersfan
May 24th, 2013, 12:41 PM
I hear what you're saying. I'm still new to all this. Both VT and sexuality. Funny thing is seems a lot of guys wondering about their feelings and relationship with other guys, say they're st8 ironically. I mean I have best friend (st8) that I've been friends with for a long time, that I'm starting to have feelings for... and I wouldn't be wondering the same stuff or asking the same questions if I had those feelings for a girl. The way things are between him and me, I just might be asking questions about our relationship here soon myself.
This does sound kind of shitty, but here is how you can try to separate whether you have romantic or regular feelings for him. Do you find him sexually attractive? HomoSEXUAL means you like the same sex sexually. If you find yourself very attached to him, but don't find him sexually attractive, then you are just attached to him as a friend. But if you do, then you very will could be Bi.
Josh Morgan
May 24th, 2013, 06:33 PM
This does sound kind of shitty, but here is how you can try to separate whether you have romantic or regular feelings for him. Do you find him sexually attractive? HomoSEXUAL means you like the same sex sexually. If you find yourself very attached to him, but don't find him sexually attractive, then you are just attached to him as a friend. But if you do, then you very will could be Bi.
I'm starting to find him attractive sexually and I've considered that I might be Bi and I'm OK with that. But I've also gotten the idea from what I've read that a lot of boys who are between like 13 and 16 have homosexual feelings and it's just a phase or whatever. We have actually held hands sitting next to each other recently though cuddling up on the couch watching a movie.
chargersfan
May 24th, 2013, 06:36 PM
I'm starting to find him attractive sexually and I've considered that I might be Bi and I'm OK with that. But I've also gotten the idea from what I've read that a lot of boys who are between like 13 and 16 have homosexual feelings and it's just a phase or whatever. We have actually held hands sitting next to each other recently though cuddling up on the couch watching a movie.
Well I'm completely gay, so I can't really say much there. You sound like you are maybe bi-curious. Only time will really tell.
ItsDarien
May 24th, 2013, 07:05 PM
You can post your own thread and post your thoughts about straight girls and boys, but still. People here are expressing who they are, VT is somewhere they can be themselves, and express who they are, which is something that some of them can't do anywhere else.
~Darien.
Magnus Bane
May 27th, 2013, 09:31 AM
I agree with racheal. She is 100% correct Hetero's are the favored group. No offense but you don't see people beating up heterosexual people for being that way. They are the ones who beat us up and make fun of s for being this way. I don't really see the need for there to be a straight outlet but you can make one.
Luke257
May 27th, 2013, 01:39 PM
You can post your own thread and post your thoughts about straight girls and boys, but still. People here are expressing who they are, VT is somewhere they can be themselves, and express who they are, which is something that some of them can't do anywhere else.
~Darien.
This completely sums what I was going to say and I think you should be comfortable with the amount of gay/bi posts here because most of people are not straight also I see your point of view in that you should post your thread and share your thoughts.:yes:
Thanks for being open minded by the way. :D
lele
May 27th, 2013, 07:15 PM
You know, you can make your own thread based on straight thoughts.
I wouldn't really think 100% straight people have issues with their sexuality. If you are in need of relationship advice, go here (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=52).
>implying all 100% gay people have problems
RyanJF1
May 27th, 2013, 07:45 PM
>implying all 100% gay people have problems
?
I'm saying that if you are straight, you know that for a fact, and you have not once questioned your sexuality, you shouldn't have an issue with your sexuality.
I am in no way implying that all gay people have problems. On average, gay people tend to struggle a lot more than people who are straight. This is just society. Everyone struggles in the end.
sixguy6
May 28th, 2013, 10:21 AM
you make a thread
Lovelife090994
May 29th, 2013, 10:26 PM
I agree with racheal. She is 100% correct Hetero's are the favored group. No offense but you don't see people beating up heterosexual people for being that way. They are the ones who beat us up and make fun of s for being this way. I don't really see the need for there to be a straight outlet but you can make one.
Haha ha, I beg to differ. It is not always so black and white. And besides, heterosexuals are considered the norm and is praised of course in culture, people love romance right?
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