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clueless_one
May 23rd, 2013, 07:02 AM
I'm too nice to lots of girls and I'm afraid that this is a wrong thing to do when trying to find a girlfriend (trying not to look desperite). I read somewhere that people who are too nice are the ones who get hurt the most. But that's just me I'm nice to everyone. What should I do. Is it wrong.

PinkFloyd
May 23rd, 2013, 07:28 AM
DUDE. If you try to be even a slight douche, then things will NOT go well for you. You need to be nice. I mean it's one thing if you have loads of money, and you get her like everything she wants including a Rolls Royce.... That is a problem because she would just be using you for your money then.

Having lots of respect for her is the best way to go. I've been with the same girl for over two years. For all this time, I've been respectful, and made sure she was ready for every step up we took in the physical neighborhood. You should be too. It's a great thing to be the "nice guy."

HockeyLovesMe
May 23rd, 2013, 09:59 AM
im nice to all my friends and i dont see any problems but nodody is really dating in my class so maybey thats why haha

LitBlackRose
May 23rd, 2013, 10:41 AM
Girls do not like that well I don't. Anyway to me a nice guy is the one the girls want to be around . Don't be less nice just show your interested like little hits or become a bit flirty don't become a douch bag. Yeah they say nice guys finish last well no it's because they won't even start. You have to be nice but be flirty if you want a gf. A bad boy will not last long with girls and end up being hated by way more girls then they would like

Cece14
May 23rd, 2013, 11:40 AM
Keep being nice, but when you get a girl.... Then continue to be nice to other people, but nicer to your girl:p

teen.jpg
May 23rd, 2013, 10:10 PM
Not to be a douche, but if a girl doesn't like you, SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU. The worst thing you could do is change yourself for one person. Be yourself, and the right person will come along eventually.

Croconaw
May 24th, 2013, 11:39 AM
No, it's not wrong. I don't date assholes. I'd hate to say it, but Shyy_Guii is right.

Synyster Shadows
May 24th, 2013, 02:32 PM
No it isn't. Being too nice makes you more likely to get a loving gf than being an asshole.

sixguy6
May 24th, 2013, 04:20 PM
be if your a jerk women wont like you

sixguy6
May 24th, 2013, 04:20 PM
but not to nice