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greger92
December 9th, 2007, 03:42 PM
hey i have a question for girls, preferilly girls who if was dating some1, would be having some type of sex. how long into a relationship do u have some type of sexual relationship kuz my friend fingered a girl like 1 week in

goodgirlrocks2
December 17th, 2007, 05:00 PM
As long as they feel ready, any time is ok :)

staying_alive
December 17th, 2007, 07:33 PM
hey are you sure that your friend did that? or was it just a little white lie to make him feel good? by the way, how old are you? i'm only 13, in 8th grade, and i can't even imagine someone anywhere close to my age doing that. kissing is a big deal in our school......

Glasgow
December 17th, 2007, 08:09 PM
I believe it. Usually you start off slow and gradually get more sexual

archangel
December 17th, 2007, 11:43 PM
Yeah i would imagine that you have to be at least a freshmen before you can maybe begin to talk to her about being more intimate.

abusdbybronz
December 20th, 2007, 01:48 PM
hey i have a question for girls, preferilly girls who if was dating some1, would be having some type of sex. how long into a relationship do u have some type of sexual relationship kuz my friend fingered a girl like 1 week in
depens where about you live and where you where brought up hormones and other stuff every1s different

ktkurbst0mp
December 25th, 2007, 07:08 PM
I think it should take a while.
Sex isn't something you should just throw around.

Trampster
December 26th, 2007, 05:55 AM
As long as they feel ready, any time is ok :)


I agree 100%!

As long as long as they're both consenting.

[[chickaroo92]]
December 26th, 2007, 01:31 PM
Well, as some said..wait until you're both ready.

Sapphire
December 27th, 2007, 04:50 AM
It is something we decide together.

Malcolm Tucker
December 27th, 2007, 07:48 AM
In my honest opinion, it is, as others have said when you both are ready. But you have to take so many things into consideration:

-Risk of Pregnancy
-Risks of STDs
-If you are caught, what'll you say

etc.

ideasgirl
January 3rd, 2008, 11:46 AM
I think that having sex for the first time is a very big deal that is taken a little too lightly in today's society. I'm not trying to sound like a grandma here. I was sexually active from 16 which I believe is a realistic age. I think that as long as you and this girl (assuming there is one) have both reached puberty, and understand the risks involved in sexual intercourse (both physical and emotional such as sexually transmitted diseases, pain, regret etc etc) and you feel ready then that's what is most important. But moreso I think that teens have to realise that sex really isn't all it's hyped up to be. It doesn't make you any more cooler than somebody else if you're having sex.

goin to work
January 3rd, 2008, 12:04 PM
um as long as thers concent ur fine and lik i fingerd a chick in 8th grade so lik 13 is an ok time but idk about where u live and what ur values are