Horniness

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I don't quite understand it. It seems like every guy I know is nothing more then hormonal beasts.

Take for example a conversation I was in at school today. A friend asked all us guys whether we preferred ass or boobs. I didn't even have an answer, because frankly I have some damn morals.

I don't know what it is about me, but I've never been like that. To me, the most important part of someone is there personality. I hate to be so cliche, but it's what's on the INSIDE that counts. It's pretty corny, really, but I guess it's just me.

On the other hand, every other guy can't control their horniness and go around like little whores, and I don't really get it. Is it just me, or does it seem like nobody has any morals anymore?

[johnsmith1]

Quite a deep question. I do think it depends whenyou ask boys. When the hormones are running, then yes, it does seem that some boys just go for the superfishal (forgive my spelling!) thoughts of ass or boobs. I'd like to think if you did get someone to sit down and seriously think about someone that they would want a relationship with, they would more seriously think on other things. I think some are getting the hormomes before getting the concept of morals.

[Sharona]

I don't quite understand it. It seems like every guy I know is nothing more then hormonal beasts.

Take for example a conversation I was in at school today. A friend asked all us guys whether we preferred ass or boobs. I didn't even have an answer, because frankly I have some damn morals.

What is immoral about liking boobs or bums? That's natural
You don't have to be a douche or a perv about it - but it isn't wrong to have a preference or desire - sounds really childish or fake not to.
Or more homosexual than bisexual that you aren't particularly attracted to the female form?

[Jake Morgan]

This reminds me of a thread called "Guy Talk" in another teen forum.
Josh said, "I don't mind it to a degree. Seems though like it's almost like a requirement when you reach a certain age."
And I said, "I wonder if some guys do it to try and prove they're not gay. There's one guy we know who does it so much it's like he's faking it to try and prove something."

[Josh Schlacter]

What is immoral about liking boobs or bums? That's natural
You don't have to be a douche or a perv about it - but it isn't wrong to have a preference or desire - sounds really childish or fake not to.
Or more homosexual than bisexual that you aren't particularly attracted to the female form?

Exactly. Maybe he is asexual and doesn't like either sex or the idea of it.

[Sharona]

Exactly. Maybe he is asexual and doesn't like either sex or the idea of it.

I expect just a poser who is trying to claim moral high ground/faux sensitivity as if people would be impressed

[Josh Schlacter]

I expect just a poser who is trying to claim moral high ground/faux sensitivity as if people would be impressed

Yeah i guess so. But what i don't understand is why someone would even feel the need to claim moral high ground on a forum such as VT. Maybe it's some lame technique for picking up girls :P

[RyGar]

Wow that escalated quickly. First off, maybe the kid actually just isn't that horny in school or with other guys. Second off low blow to immediately call him gay, even though most people acknowledge that there is nothing wrong with gays, almost every guy I know including the gay dude still vehemently goes out of their way to keep from appearing or seeming gay. Third she is right there is nothing immoral about it, it's natural o like boobs and ass. This part is all conjecture, but I would guess that your friends don't see themselves as immoral, they probably want to like a girl for what's on the inside, but when it comes time to choose between serious committed relationships and a quick piece I think they are just going for the sex.

[Sharona]

Yeah i guess so. But what i don't understand is why someone would even feel the need to claim moral high ground on a forum such as VT. Maybe it's some lame technique for picking up girls :P

My thoughts exactly

[Josh Schlacter]

My thoughts exactly

btw, i like your Avatar/profile pic.

[darkie]

Okay, I think it's safe to assume that all guys are horny at least some of the time. Some always, some seldom; some are vocal about it, some are modest about it. There might be this one or two boys who weren't too shy to share the details of their raging hormones, and other guys, feeling the same thing but too shy to admit it, now feel comfortable of sharing what they feel as well. That goes around until a certain standard is created where if you're a guy, you're bound to talk about boobies/ass/sex/etc. really often.

There are guys who, like I said, aren't really keen on sharing the feelings of their raging emotions, and break the standard/mold, purposely or not. That doesn't mean that they *aren't* horny from time to time, they just don't see the point of telling everyone else about that.

Oh, and personally, one reason why I don't really hang out with guys. A conversation will always swerve to checking out girls, or what are the best features of a girl, or something connected to that. I think, "Can't we talk about something more intelligible and less shallow?" But to each their own, I guess.

[Sharona]

btw, i like your Avatar/profile pic.

Why thanks :)