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CyrustheGreat
May 22nd, 2013, 02:45 AM
Im a virgin, and was wondering when the right time to lose my virginity is. Just a round about number is good for me.

GigglyAbby
May 22nd, 2013, 03:17 AM
Sadly -- there is no certain age for one to lose their virginity since each person has their own expectations or goals and each person develops or matures at different levels than others.

To answer your question -- "I'm a virgin, and was wondering when the right time to lose my virginity is" -- You may want to consider losing your virginity when You:
*are aware of your body and have no hangups on your weight and other attributes of your body
*trust someone and perhaps a true connection with to show your body and body parts to and that you feel they one to share such a precious moment with
*are aware of your partner's body and what the organs do
*neither of you feel pressured to hookup or have sex
*explore the truths of birth control and have the ability to buy and use it as recommended
*are ready to handle a possible STI
*are mature enough to handle a possible pregnancy since NO form of protection is 100% effective
*do it because you both want to do it and you're not trying to brag to friends or to join others as no longer being virgins
*feel comfortable enough to openly discuss it with your partner and perhaps adults who may need to provides services to either of you

Jake Morgan
May 22nd, 2013, 03:48 AM
Maybe on your honeymoon. Seems a lot of people say they regret losing it sooner. just sayin...

Josh Schlacter
May 22nd, 2013, 04:31 AM
Around 17 is probably the best option if you cant wait. At least then your able to consciously think of your actions properly

Sharona
May 22nd, 2013, 04:35 AM
Some time in 2019 if my numerology charts are correct


Which they are

HockeyLovesMe
May 22nd, 2013, 08:31 AM
Some time in 2019 if my numerology charts are correct


Which they are

haha 2 funny :) and i dunno i think whenever ur ready to lose it then lose it :)

Sharona
May 22nd, 2013, 09:24 AM
Well it's tricky, I think at 16 I am now finally ready to lose it

But I already lost it 4 years ago

Stryker125
May 22nd, 2013, 12:01 PM
There isn't really a specific number. You should lose your virginity when you're ready, and that's probably different ages for everyone.

taylorbaby
May 22nd, 2013, 01:22 PM
I lost my virginity 7 months ago and now I am pregnant and it will probably be the last time for a while too, I have learned there is a lot more to sex then just intercourse. like dr bills, food and clothes for the baby and I have to buy a car seat and a lot of other stuff that I can't afford.

randomnessqueen
May 22nd, 2013, 01:39 PM
wait until you are out of highschool,
highschool relationships never become anything.
and wait until you're really in love
dont just do it with whoever youre dating at the time.
and dont start having sex until you're ready to have a child, it doesnt matter what protection you use, its not perfect

CyrustheGreat
May 22nd, 2013, 04:20 PM
Well it's tricky, I think at 16 I am now finally ready to lose it

But I already lost it 4 years ago

well, thats a bit sad.

apw91
May 22nd, 2013, 04:36 PM
If you have to ask that question of others you are not ready

teen.jpg
May 22nd, 2013, 11:13 PM
To sound as cliche as possible, WHEN YOU'RE READY. But that doesn't mean just do it whenever. You gotta be prepared for any possible situation.

PinkFloyd
May 22nd, 2013, 11:16 PM
I lost mine at 14, but I'd suggest 16 or 17.

BrandonA
May 23rd, 2013, 12:50 AM
I'm waiting until I'm married. I want my first time to mean something.
Plus I'd rather lose it to someone That Ill spend the rest of my life with. To someone I Love.
Im not ready anyway :/

nicole97
May 24th, 2013, 09:02 PM
Like most people said, when you're ready. I'd say if there is a minimum i'd be 14 but it's more important that this you're emotionally ready and you're with a person your sure won't change for the worse because of it. Personally I felt like I did it too young/early (at 13, with a guy my age i'd been with for 6 months), and while I don't regret losing it to that person (seeing as we were together another 2 years) I really do feel I should have given another year or year and a half to mature emotionally and let our relationship grow. Physically I always enjoyed the sex, and while I always liked him, I don't think I ever really felt that intimate emotional connection you'd prefer with your first until I was about 15.

CharlieHorse
May 24th, 2013, 09:03 PM
16-21 area

Josh Schlacter
May 25th, 2013, 09:40 AM
Well it's tricky, I think at 16 I am now finally ready to lose it

But I already lost it 4 years ago

at 12? how did that end up happening?

Sharona
May 25th, 2013, 10:12 AM
at 12? how did that end up happening?

He followed me when I went to the dunes for a private moment
He liked me, I liked him, it got carried away and I didn't want him to think I wasn't anything but into him and I let anything of his into me

He was 16 and I didn't look 12 even though he knew I was

Josh Schlacter
May 25th, 2013, 10:22 AM
He followed me when I went to the dunes for a private moment
He liked me, I liked him, it got carried away and I didn't want him to think I wasn't anything but into him and I let anything of his into me

He was 16 and I didn't look 12 even though he knew I was

Oh okay, sounds hot. Are you still in touch with him?

Sharona
May 25th, 2013, 10:25 AM
No I'm not, it was hot but I wasn't really ready and it messed me up a bit a while after but it's ok
Glad I didn't get knocked up, just lucky

ChrisA1998
May 26th, 2013, 04:01 AM
Im a virgin, and was wondering when the right time to lose my virginity is. Just a round about number is good for me.

It depends, everyone is ready at a different age.

first thing first, you need to be in a relationship, then it must last long enough to reach the point of considering going further ;-)

Sharona
May 26th, 2013, 04:29 AM
In your opinion, it's not a requirement

ChrisA1998
May 26th, 2013, 01:06 PM
In your opinion, it's not a requirement

what do you mean ?

Sharona
May 26th, 2013, 04:38 PM
Exactly

You are putting requirements and generalizations on it

riverboy
May 26th, 2013, 04:52 PM
I lost my virginity 7 months ago and now I am pregnant and it will probably be the last time for a while too, I have learned there is a lot more to sex then just intercourse. like dr bills, food and clothes for the baby and I have to buy a car seat and a lot of other stuff that I can't afford.

Can you afford a baby and it's life changing affects?