Is she lying? (distressed atm)

[TomFoolerie]

My girlfriend told me that she was a virgin, she said she'd never been fingered, never masturbated nothing at all, aside from tampon use. She told me however that for the first time she did masturbate. She said she managed to fit three fingers without "too much trouble" I feel like she's not telling me something, she's had many many many boyfriends before me. She told me off this first time the next day, and later said she felt kinda sore in the vaginal area. I myself am a virgin, and as odd as this may sound I would prefer to lose it to a virgin. But I really love her, and for the first time her vaginal fluids which were on my hand came in contact with my penis. I now have a lump on it in the area around which it came in contact. I feel like she lied to me and gave me a disease. Please give me advice, I don't know where else to turn. (additional info- she told me before we ever got together she was a virgin, however multiple people told me there is no way in hell she is a virgin. I just don't want to be lied to and she was honest when she cheated on me the one time( she had just kissed the guy and let him feel her up; nothing else) so why would she lie about this? Please give me answers... It's eating me alive knowing what the possibilities are.:(

[HockeyLovesMe]

if yur not trusting her then break up with her.. prty easy :) if i thoght a girl was lying to me id break up wth her for sure

[taylorbaby]

My girlfriend told me that she was a virgin, she said she'd never been fingered, never masturbated nothing at all, aside from tampon use. She told me however that for the first time she did masturbate. She said she managed to fit three fingers without "too much trouble" I feel like she's not telling me something, she's had many many many boyfriends before me. She told me off this first time the next day, and later said she felt kinda sore in the vaginal area. I myself am a virgin, and as odd as this may sound I would prefer to lose it to a virgin. But I really love her, and for the first time her vaginal fluids which were on my hand came in contact with my penis. I now have a lump on it in the area around which it came in contact. I feel like she lied to me and gave me a disease. Please give me advice, I don't know where else to turn. (additional info- she told me before we ever got together she was a virgin, however multiple people told me there is no way in hell she is a virgin. I just don't want to be lied to and she was honest when she cheated on me the one time( she had just kissed the guy and let him feel her up; nothing else) so why would she lie about this? Please give me answers... It's eating me alive knowing what the possibilities are.:(before I got pregnant I masturbated and my fingers went alll the way in because I am sure I broke my hymen years ago. and I was a virgin too. I totally believe her.

[Cece14]

she could be, she probally is:/

[Croconaw]

She's probably lying.

[Cece14]

yes, she is... and you should go to the doctor

[kenoloor]

If you can't trust her, you probably shouldn't be dating her, much less wanting to have sex with her.

Edit: oh and get that dick checked out by a doc yo.

[Rayquaza]

First you need to see a doctor, in case it just so happens to be something else and not an STI or anything. But to be honest it seems like she's lying.

[bored4evah]

Sounds like shes lying