Would you rather have a relationship with...

[Sasha M]

Would you rather have a relationship with someone a grade lower then you, or a grade higher then you?

[PinkFloyd]

Higher

[Sasha M]

Higher

Now I added a poll.

[Anxiety]

I'm not in school and never dated a classmate or anyone from another school, but I prefer older guys around 19-22 as I've met more guys that age that are on par with my mental maturity than guys my own age..I've actually never dated anyone below the age of 18, but I've only had four actual relationships..

[Josh Morgan]

I'm 13. higher of course.

[BrandonA]

I like me some older women. Though one in the same grade would be a better preference

[GigglyAbby]

1st -- the advantage of dating an older guy by a grade or 2 is that our maturity levels may be better in sync since they say girls are typically more mature. But dating a guy in the same grade may not be bad. When I'm a junior in high school I may date a sophomore but now I wouldn't date a guy in elementary school or when I enter high school I may not date someone in middle school.

[HockeyLovesMe]

1st -- the advantage of dating an older guy by a grade or 2 is that our maturity levels may be better in sync since they say girls are typically more mature. But dating a guy in the same grade may not be bad. When I'm a junior in high school I may date a sophomore but now I wouldn't date a guy in elementary school or when I enter high school I may not date someone in middle school.

dammit haha :wub:

I'm 13. higher of course.

13 to and higher for me

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[randomnessqueen]

doesnt really matter to me

[justin 13]

13 to higher for me. But my last experience with an older guy, he is 15 y.o went totally wrong.

[Jake111]

Highers always better for your image ;)

[chrisf55]

I say lower because guys are supposed to be older or bigger than their girlfriend is.

[johnsmith1]

Either for me

[ECSTASY]

Lower is better i think :p

[Sasha M]

I say lower because guys are supposed to be older or bigger than their girlfriend is.

Sexist.

[Amber Bi]

I'd have to say a year higher.. but then again I am more attracted to older guys anyway. not mad old...just a couple of years older

[Grand Admiral Thrawn]

I prefer higher, but I wouldn't mind a grade lower either. :P

[Elysium]

A grade above. I don't think I could ever date someone younger than me.

[Appypollylogges]

I'm not picky in that regard, but if I had to choice, I'd say higher grade.

[rideforlife]

ive done both, higher is hard for you to fit in though. And lower makes you look like a king, I perfer lower because I can be myself better.

[Steven1]

Well, Im in England but I'd prefer someone a year or two younger. I cant really explain it, but I'd just prefer it.

[ChrisFromKY]

A grade lower for me

[Sasha M]

I think it would be really akward to date someone in the higer grades. There is only one other option...

[Jevon]

Most deffinatley higher...but I have had one with a grade lower than me

[chrisf55]

Sexist.

Please explain to me how that is sexist, because it isn't.

[tundravortex]

doesn't matter to me

[Sasha M]

Please explain to me how that is sexist, because it isn't.

You said the male should big the big tough important person and the girl should be small. like some kinda pet. Defenselessness is a word. XD
Anyway, yeah, sexsist.

[chrisf55]

You said the male should big the big tough important person and the girl should be small. like some kinda pet. Defenselessness is a word. XD
Anyway, yeah, sexsist.

I never said the girl should be small and defenseless like a pet, you said that. I just said that I feel the guy should be older than the girl so you arent dating a girl whos bigger than you.

[Sasha M]

I never said the girl should be small and defenseless like a pet, you said that. I just said that I feel the guy should be older than the girl so you arent dating a girl whos bigger than you.

Why cant that be the oppiste then. Smartass. :mad:

[TinyDancer]

Probobly a grade higher than me but not in college while I'm in HS.

[Croconaw]

Well I'm 10th grade and my boyfriend is in 9th grade. So lower

[Sasha M]

Mabey I shold do another poll...

[LouBerry]

Higher, I don't date younger guys.

[chargersfan]

In general older, because I like maturity. But that doesn't mean I wouldn't date somebody younger than me if I felt like they were mature.

[sixguy6]

both ways

[Soccerkid]

Grade lower for me might make me feel better where I am in puberty

[Josh Schlacter]

I think girls like older guys, because they're more matured mentally and sexually. And i think guys like younger girls because they feel like they can protect them more (sense of manliness).

[lukene]

Nd 1st -- the advantage of dating an older guy by a grade or 2 is that our maturity levels may be better in sync since they say girls are typically more mature. But dating a guy in the same grade may not be bad. When I'm a junior in high school I may date a sophomore but now I wouldn't date a guy in elementary school or when I enter high school I may not date someone in middle school.

I swear the girls mature faster than guys (exceptions of course) is true. I'm a guy and from about grade 3-4 I started hanging out mainly with girls , I always just assumed it was because im bi-gay (still deciding lol) but recently I went to this school camp thing and had to stay with these guys separate from the girls at night, they were really nice and we got along except every chance I got I would hang out with the girls. I finally had epiphany that I just found the guys humour just stupid and that we just weren't on the same maturity but with the girls it was just easier to communicate!:)

[Sasha M]

I think girls like older guys, because they're more matured mentally and sexually. And i think guys like younger girls because they feel like they can protect them more (sense of manliness).

Agreed.

[ItsDarien]

I'd rather go with someone in my own grade, but since that option isn't here.. I'd have to choose Higher, I'd want a more mature and responsible woman or girl, not a child.

~Darien.

[chrisf55]

Why cant that be the oppiste then. Smartass. :mad:

I never said it couldn't, I was answering the question saying I prefer the guy to be older. So now you just took yourself back to the beginning question. So if i'm a smart---, what does that make you right now?

[cobas1]

i have dated both older and younger girls and i see no difference

[Sasha M]

Bump a dee bump bump.
Also, everyone who said "higher" needs someone who wants "lower."

[Abyssal Echo]

higher

[Trace]

Higher .

[pjones]

higher

[Sasha M]

I shall now unleash my thread bumping powers! POOZAH!

[KellyNC]

I wouldn't exclude a younger person, but i'd prefer higher. Especially with guys, but I wouldn't make it a necessity either.

[HahaWaitWhat]

Higher, since I'm about as old as someone in their Senior year.

[Lost in the Echo]

Either would be fine.

[Sackboy]

Either would be fine.

^ This

[DerBear]

Puberty for Both :arrow: Relationships and Dating. This would fit better here...

[Rina]

Definitely a higher grade.

[indoxyl]

Im in grade 12 so i cant really date someone of a higher grade. But i went with higher anyway

[teen.jpg]

One grade lower (seventh grade) and two grades higher (sophomore). But this would actually require someone to like :lol:

[Synyster Shadows]

I only said below because I'd prefer same age but that wasn't an option
But a few months younger wouldn't be bad

[Sasha M]

Thanks for the feedback, looks like this thread will be here for a wile.

But remember, I have magical thread bumping powers.

[Altiier]

Older... Definitely, my GF is 16 WOOT WOOT FREE TRANSPORTATION!!

[Sasha M]

BUMP. Oh I forgot to say witch one I chosse.
LOWER!

[Miserabilia]

Higher, intelligence is important for me i guess

[Radkae]

I've dated higher and younger. It really depends on the grade your in and the maturity of yourself and the one you want to date.

It can be fun or sad/boring.

[ryan17]

lower because I'm young for my grade anyways, but having a girlfriend in a higher grade makes you look pretty cool hahah

[ForeverTwelve]

I'd like a younger girl. I like holding someone smaller and younger in my arms, though one grade usually doesn't make a difference.

[Jess]

A grade higher. I seem to like older boys, maybe because they're generally more mature....but the same grade would be okay too.

[Cooper197]

As long as it was just a 1 year difference, I really don't care that much if it is younger, same or older. All of my girlfriends have been same age though, partially due to being from a tiny town where anything otherwise is looked down upon.

[azngurl]

My boyfriend is 2 years older than me and its great because he can help me with my school work! Hehe (but that's not the only reason)

[Sasha M]

It's been awhile, BBBUUUMMMPPP!!

[Obsidian]

I would rather date somebody who has graduated high school. I've only been in one relationship, which was recently, and I was 18 while he was 23. I was supposed to graduate this past school year, but since I'm behind in credits I have an extra year of high school. So if I dated somebody a grade lower than me, they'd technically be two grades lower than me. I don't like the idea of dating a guy younger than me. I guess a year younger than me might be okay, but only if they were a mature person. But any younger than that would just be really weird for me.

[CharlieHorse]

Would you rather have a relationship with someone a grade lower then you, or a grade higher then you?

I don't care. If it's love, it's love :D :wub:

ps i LOVE your sig pic :D

Cmc!

[Sasha M]

I don't care. If it's love, it's love :D :wub:

ps i LOVE your sig pic :D

Cmc!

Thanks! :D
Btw, I'm trying to spread the word about a YouTube channel. Do you like Minecraft?

[CharlieHorse]

Thanks! :D
Btw, I'm trying to spread the word about a YouTube channel. Do you like Minecraft?

Not really, sorry :/

[Sasha M]

Not really, sorry :/

It's ok, just checking...

[trimm_tom]

i would prefer a lower grade

[Hermes96]

older

[breakingbad27]

I said lower because i am a bit old fashioned. i dont want to sound like a womanizer, but i feel that in a relationship the man has to be the one that is more superior. he has to make a little bit more money, he has to be good at this or that at times. I believe that over the next decade or so that wont change because what i am saying has been happening for years and i feel that if we as men were in a relationship and the woman was most superior it would look obscure. Also daughters get their mothers " talents ", what i mean by this is that over the past century or so woman have learned that undermining or throwing a man's mistake in his face will a lot of the times hurt their ego. So if the GF had a higher grade it will be likely that in a fight or conversation she will throw that fact in his face.

message or just quote me if you think i am wrong or right, etc

[Esteben]

I prefer someone older. I never dated someone younger though

[Cygnus]

Since we are talking about a single grade I would say lower.

[marrisa]

I have only dated guys in higher grades.Guys tend to be less mature than girls so you kinda have to.Guys my age and lower seem inmature to me.