Could you help a guy out?

[Zach_014]

Ok so here is the deal I think I may be in love with my best friend :/ ... He knows I'm gay but doesn't know my feelings towards him... Also he spends the night a lot (and vice versa) and when we like accidentally like brush legs or something I get a big flutter in my chest and what almost feels like the best adrenaline rush i can give myself...and here is the kicker: i would give up if i KNEW he's was straight but i just dont know...one night when he was over he said he wasnt sure but he thought that he may be bisexual which made me almost pass out from excitement and well i just dont know what to do ..also he has a girlfriend which greatly enforces the straight theory

[sdude]

It's a very tough road, as u don't know if he is being just curious or if he will actually cross the line. Do you know if he is sexually active with his girlfriend?? He will probably drive you crazy with all this teasing, so at some point, you probably should just talk to him and share your feelings about him. If he really cares about you as a friend, he should be honest back about how he feels about you and his sexuality..could really save you a terrible heartache dude....

[averagemuscleguy]

Well i would try and just casually bring up the subject of him being possibly gay or just mention things and see his reaction. The whole girlfriend thing doesnt mean much to me because he could be bi or gay and just seeing what being with a girl is like. Or you could just ask him :)

[Zach_014]

I just don't know if I could stand it if I drove him off of he ot weirded out by me for liking him...I don't have a ton of close friends in fact he is one of two of the people I can trust in this world

I just don't know what the hell to do...real quick can someone say if this is what love truly feels like?

[Jake Morgan]

Well if he has a girlfriend, wouldn't he be two timing if he started up something with you? I think if he's a good friend, you should be able to chat with him about his relationship with her. Maybe tell him you're curious about boy girl relationships because you're gay and maybe also ask him how he feels about his own sexuality. Just that you're trying to get an honest better understanding of things in general. Maybe then you'll have something to work with to go from there. Sounds like you have a good friend though. Those are valuable.

[Zach_014]

Thanks so much to everyone that has answered

[tommy100]

I would just bring it up subtly and see what his reaction is. He said he might be bi so the girlfriend thing doesn't really mean much. Just take it slow and see what happens

[TimMyself]

Just say it to him or ask him about his final orientation

[XxVeggiexX]

I feel your pain. I feel something for my good friend, but he says he is straight, but when he would come over he would start "play" dry humping me and I would do the same. Start small like secretly satisfy your needs (like play truth or dare and dare him to strip all his clothes off that way its funny and you see him naked or play strip poker, my friend and I play a lot and i'm okay with statistics so i win 90% of the time), and when you feel you are ready subtly bring up a discussion and watch for his reactions. Good luck.

[Leec]

Just let time decide on what will happen he may brake up with her

[Hermes96]

ahhhh i really do feel for you i have a friend like that who knows i'm gay and he is bi but at least your friend doesn't act like a cock tease. just tell him how you feel if he's that much of a good mate he should ecsept you. you never know he could feel the same way :)

[itsthat0n3kid]

bud, honestly i would just try talking to him about it. invite him over one night and have a serious friend talk. see where it goes from there. but whatever you do, dont be pushy. thats a sure way to scare him off.

[Harry Smith]

Puberty for boys :arrow: teen sexuality

[Faolan]

I have a friend like that. I know for a fact that he's bi, since he told me himself, but he's only ever dated girls, and I know he would never date me. I can't stop liking him, though, cause I know he's bi.

[Biscuithead13]

Ok so here is the deal I think I may be in love with my best friend :/ ... He knows I'm gay but doesn't know my feelings towards him... Also he spends the night a lot (and vice versa) and when we like accidentally like brush legs or something I get a big flutter in my chest and what almost feels like the best adrenaline rush i can give myself...and here is the kicker: i would give up if i KNEW he's was straight but i just dont know...one night when he was over he said he wasnt sure but he thought that he may be bisexual which made me almost pass out from excitement and well i just dont know what to do ..also he has a girlfriend which greatly enforces the straight theory

I have a friend who im in the exact same boat with. We've even had sleep overs and done stuff together, and hes even admitted he'd love to have me as his boyfriend but he'd "need a girl at some point." Sometimes its best to just detach yourself from that person, as much as it hurts (tonite actually me and him had the conversation) and move on. You'll find a boy who is gay and loves you unconditionally, just like I know I'll find one. I admit, the fun times with my friend were awesome, but at some point you have to move on, cuz theres so many more guys out there for you! :)

[steellord321]

It probly won't drive him off if he said that about being bi. However, being with someone already he'll probably turn it down, but maybe in the future.

[Extreme586]

I know for a fact I'm gay yet I can't help but constantly fight a feeling inside me that makes me want to have a girlfriend. I'm not attracted to girls yet from pure pressure, and just how being normal is generally defined in high school, I feel like I need one. It's the strangest thing and if I didn't have huge self confidence issues I probably would have one.