12 year old friend getting a nose peirceing

[bored4evah]

Hey, im 13, most of my close friends are 13, 14 and 15 but I also have a friend who is 12 that might be getting her nose peirced! She probaly will if te ringgoes through. One of my fifteen year old friends has her nose peirced, but I think that's okay as shes older but a 12 year old? Is it wrong that I really dont want her to do it, im worried that ill think its disgusting and not like her anymore, and shes like my best friend too. Apparently you can get it done with parental concent which her dads giving her but her mum would prefer she wears makeup, so would I to be honest even though I dont wear it.

Anyway I just feel so pissed off that shes getting this done at a young age like that, im 13 and I dont have any peircings for fuck sake! I really dontwant her to do it, latley shes been turning I to one of those 'I like red cause its the color of blood' people, like a type of goth or something. I wanther to see a therapist too but shes against the idea completly, ive known her since i was 8 so I know her well, but shes been acting super weird latley and im worried, what should I do?

[Stephan]

Even though, you may think she is leading her life into complete oblivion, and entering a path of destruction. I think you should atleast be supportive of her actions. I'm sure she has the approval of her parents. So why can't you accept that?

I understand your looking out for her, but maybe she should experience the consequences head on because some people people (like me) are clearly too stubborn to change the route their in, once they've entered it.

Perhaps, if her behavior starts to change even more drastically, for the bad you should warn her and her parents maybe? I mean..some friendships aren't meant to be sometimes even if at the beginning all things are well, I think that people change because of the environment they are immersed in and the people they are around with the most often.

[Sharona]

Even though, you may think she is leading her life into complete oblivion, and entering a path of destruction. I think you should atleast be supportive of her actions. I'm sure she has the approval of her parents. So why can't you accept that?

I understand your looking out for her, but maybe she should experience the consequences head on because some people people (like me) are clearly too stubborn to change the route their in, once they've entered it.

Perhaps, if her behavior starts to change even more drastically, for the bad you should warn her and her parents maybe? I mean..some friendships aren't meant to be sometimes even if at the beginning all things are well, I think that people change because of the environment they are immersed in and the people they are around with the most often.

Harden up Stephan

Don't be so superficial, she is who she is
Nose rings can be super cute
Get one too

[Cece14]

No, its not, It actually depends on were you are from, and what you belive.....

[Jake Morgan]

I dunno, it's just a piercing. They can be undone simply by leaving the ring or whatever off/out. It's just a pinprick hole. I've seen baby girls with pierced ears. So there's no real psychical harm done to be bothered by I think. So, it really boils down to mores I suppose. Our dad is a biker of sorts and he's got an earring, and let me and my brother get one when we turned 13 together. We've gotten some disapproving looks at some places, but oh well, you can't please everyone.

[Wonder.]

I'm completely confused why you even care. It's a piece of metal in her nose, not a tattoo of a dick on her forehead.

[Magenta]

Why would you want someone to see a therapist over getting a nose piercing and how she dresses? I've seen girls get nose piercings when they were younger. Who cares? They're not very noticeable unless it's the ring and even so, who cares? If she eventually decides she doesn't like it, she can just take it out. If her parents are saying okay, then it's fine. I mean, her mum sounds wary but that's just a parent being a parent.

As for her being 'goth' or whatever you want to call her, that's her decision. She's probably going through a phase. You probably are/will be too. People change a lot between the ages of 10-16. Frankly, it isn't really any of your business what she wears or does to her own body because she's experimenting to see what she likes. We've all done it. Honestly, it's a bit superficial if you decide you don't like someone anymore because of a nose piercing.

[Horatio Nelson]

I'm completely confused why you even care. It's a piece of metal in her nose, not a tattoo of a dick on her forehead.

This man read my mind.

[teen.jpg]

It's not your decision to make, and isn't even about you.

[gipsy danger]

like what everyone is saying you shouldn't care of her choices. but regardless a piercer wouldn't do body mods on someone younger then 13 and if she planning to get it done by a friend chances of infection go to at least 80%

[Croconaw]

It's her decision. Let her do what she wants. Unforunately, there will be chances of infection, like mentioned above.