View Full Version : mixed signals help
AimzHighz
December 8th, 2007, 11:53 PM
Me and Amir live on the same block
Amir goes out with my best friend Sheila and she really likes him.( and i sorta hated her because i liked him)
Amir knows im gay
so sometimes Amir filrts with me at parties like saying i got a cute face and a nice body orpulls me to his lap and kisses me.
But at other times while im like 2 feet away he makes out with sheila or Hits on another girl.
So what should i do. Just confront him and ask him Wtf does he want or just get away cuz it's really bothering me..
LateForTheSky
December 9th, 2007, 10:25 AM
Hmm well if u could tell me ur age i could help more. Maturity varies between age, Is he a bit of a jack the lad? (always up for a laugh and a bit care free) not to mention he probably was drunk at that party. If it bothers u that much dont come right out and ask him but make it more of a statment. Something about him being bi and see how he reacts. I know when people call me gay i just freeze and give them the ' oh no u didnt ' look and thats very strange for me i usualy jump down somebodys throat if they call me names. Plus it helps if u are good friends he probably more willing to tell u if u are.
AimzHighz
December 9th, 2007, 12:02 PM
He couldn't Been Drunk he's 15.
byee
December 9th, 2007, 03:19 PM
You might want to ask him why he's doing these things to you. My guess is that he's teasing you.
ideasman
December 10th, 2007, 11:08 PM
There are a lot of things about this story that are missing..now this kiss that your talking about, was it on the cheek, on the lips, with tongue? In a secluded atmosphere, or playfull, it can all be told through that kiss..
Now if it was in a crowded atmosphere, and playfully on the cheek, then he's just a friend who enjoys playing around with you. Human instinct requires us to feel wanted, by gils and guys alike, it does not matter. Now in regaurds to this guy, he may just enjoy feeling wanted sexually by a guy, that doesnt mean he's gay (curious yes, gay no) and he just enjoys playing with you, b/c there was something that you obviously did that made him feel wanted..
Now if it was an intimate kiss that you feel sure there was something else there, and in an intimate atmosphere, he may very well want you, and he's just making out with Sheila infront of you to prove something to both you and himself....that he's scared of what he's feeling toward you..
Let me know about the kiss, and we'll try to work this one out..
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