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[Blablabla36489]

Hi guys!

I'm 13 and I'm ending the 6th grade. I've always been a good student and nice to everyone. I've been respecting the rules and grown-ups. And so I do now. But, recently I saw that everyone like the guys that are naughty. I am a bit shy so I want to open myself and become popular. Some guys in my school are surrounded by the others and I want to be like them. So, what should I do to become that popular? I've always dressed well,but I think that the girls will like me more if I lose some weight. And some guys like to tickle girls,but I am too shy. Should I do that? Because,they aren't angry when they do that. Also, I don't like to go to the hallway in school, but I think it is the good way to become popular.

P.S. Everyone is kidding me that I'll be pope and so on because I'm good to everybody,but in the class I've got a pretty good position,but I want to be like that other guys.

Help me! I don't want to be that nice. What should I do to become popular and surrounded by other people? How will girls like me? And what to do when they are kidding me?

[Cece14]

First off, Dont change your image for other people.... You should work on being not being shy though, if you do that then, you can do anything...... Just dont let other people get to you...... :D

[Lofiel]

Here is something I've learned... Women love nice men, but they don't like insecure one's. Be happy with who you are and never be afraid. If you don't fit in, start your own damn group like I did.
I'm not like other boys my age, I'd rather take my girl camping on a nice summer night with scented candle's and a home-cooked meal and spend the night with her over going with 10 people who I barely even like to some "awesome party" and getting drunk and high.
Never, ever think you aren't a great person. The greatest people don't follow other's examples, they make their own.

[nice]

You don't have to be a dick to be popular people that know me and I'm close with consider me a bitch sometimes but I try to be nice to most people. Just try to have fun and be out there no one likes basic bitches ;)

I will tell you right now WATCH WHO YOU TICKLE. Some people see that shit as the start of a war :P

[Croconaw]

Popularity is a joke. It really is. Why do you think these people are so popular? Is it because they have a lot of friends? The only reason they have friends is because they do shit that is supposedly cool. When you are out of school, none of this will matter. You shouldn't change yourself to get into a certain group.

There are popular students at my school who are bullies. They are popular because they bully, and that is complete bullshit. Look; they might be popular, but they're assholes who have no life. These 'popular' kids are not worth your time.

[teen.jpg]

Don't try to be what you are not. Don't change yourself for anyone else. If you stay yourself, you'll find the people who love you for you.

[Cece14]

Dont change

[Elric]

Is it really that important to be popular? It's just school, it is not that worth. I mean, if the only reason for changing yourself is popularity, you really have a big problem. It's better to be what you are, and people will come to you.

[justin 13]

Dude find your own group of friends, don't try 2B popular, be just nice with all the people. Some popular guys in my school r also bullies, so I don't even care about them. Also, try something new like sports or hobbies. I found some friends in my soccer team and volunteering in church.

[LunarScorpio]

"oh, you don't swear, use sexual phrases for useless things, and be amazing at sport"

That is why some people are not.

SERIOUS note: If you are a great kid, really friendly, you may find that the really "cool" kids don't like you.

When you get to the top of school, they then realise how idiotic they have been.

Girls also always like the kind guys (in my experience)

To answer you question: find a topic, hobby that you like, and then find another guy or girl to talk with. Use a little wit and humour. If a girl finds you funny, they will like you. But don't take the humour too far, keep it there but low.

Also support people, then you will get noticed (hopefully in a good way)

[Faolan]

To an extent, I think it's overrated. Just be yourself, and don't try to fake it into the popular group, cause no one likes being lied to.

[princess09]

If your doing this to get girls, don't change yourself for others because girls don't like fake, fake is out. Just try and open up a bit more maybe hang out with these guys, I have a post on being popular something called the "populars" don't become so up tight that no one will like you, like I said to change your image just change what you say to people and if you don't like being teased then be naughty once in a while. Just be careful