what should I do?

[Giannaras]

So I like this girl who is in my class and I got to know her and we became friends but then spring break came (3 weeks ago(I live in Greece so its different here))and we only talked through facebook(250 messages) then school opened but it was only for 1 day to give us the material about the exams so last Friday she opened a conversation with me on facebook(first time I didnt need to talk first)so I guess thats a point for me.Today we were examed in our first lesson and(before the exam I waited 30 minutes walking around with my friends)she saw me and smiled and I said "hi" and she said too then we had second lesson to be examed 1 hour after we finished with the first one and I asked her if she wrote well and knew to solve the exersices then she asked me too and that was all we didnt talked afte that.

So I have asked this girl out many times(not telling her its date but just to hang around grab some coffee etc)and she always gave answers like"I dont know I think I wont go out tonight" or 1 specific time a friend of hers invited me and 1 friend of mine to hear her singing at a club and when my friend refuses she told me "I dont know....I think I wont go cause its to late at night"and then I saw her out LATE at night with some guys.

Now all these happened 4 weeks ago so its been some time.
What should I tell her to show her that I just want to go out as friends with her and not as a date(by the way she has a bf but when she was refusing 4 weeks ago she didnt had)I also have to note that I have helped her many times with her problems even during spring break through facebook she knows I like her because I told it to her best friend and then she just became more friendly with me.She is flattered that I like her cause from then every time she sees me she smiles even if she is sad or sth.

But she wont let me hang out with her I dont know why she goes out every day I know I see her with friends or with her BFF.Is there a way to ask her to hang around?

[AzuPazu]

I honestly think she's taking you for granted.
You're being too good for her.
She knows you'll stick around even though she finds ridiculous excuses for not having to go out with you.
I know that's not what you want to hear but I think you have to let her go.
Right now she has a boyfriend.
And she's taking you for granted (you said you helped her all the time, and even when you do that she won't see you).
You have to work on yourself not to let yourself taken granted like that.
Show her that you're better than that.

(Just my opinion btw DX).

[Cece14]

I agree with AzuPazu

[HockeyLovesMe]

ya dude serious id move on stop wasting yur time on her for sure! :) every moment u waste on her is a moment lost that u cld be spending with somebody that will care for u back

[Giannaras]

Its easy for you to say,5 days ago when she just wanted to open a conversation with me I was in the bathroom when she sented that message on fb and when I went on my pc screen and I saw that she talked to me alone without me forcing a conversation and then(this happened to me for the first time in my life)I felt like my heart got burned like it was on fire and for these 2 seconds I felt it I thought that it was serius and I dont know it was just the strongest feeling I ever felt and I cant stop thinking about her.

She just wont give me 1 chance even to be one of her friends.

[sixguy6]

go for it

[Croconaw]

No. Don't go for it. You deserve someone better and you should not waste your time on someone like her. There is someone out there that will care for you. Just not her.

[nice]

If she doesn't like you like that she uses those excuses trying not to hurt your feelings. Just leave her be if she doesn't like you she doesn't like you. You guys can still be friends but find another girl that likes you. If you keep trying to much she might think your a stalker. My friend has an "almost stalker" and it's weird, don't end up like a stalker is all I have to say and find a new girl.

[Giannaras]

you are all right I should not try again she doesnt like me for bf so I move on.Also if she wants her to open a conversation on fb I will wait but I wont do it again

[Josh Morgan]

Try to cool your jets dude. You've got a huge crush on her and so far it doesn't look like the feeling is mutual. Try not to let it get the better of you. Try your best to play it cool.... I know, much easier said then done.

[Synyster Shadows]

You're wasting your time. Move on to a new girl.