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Toptoptop
May 20th, 2013, 08:50 PM
I'm 13 and not sure of my sexuality yet. I want to exprent with another boy but I don't want I because I don't want to have that feeling on my mind, that I've pretty much got or gave a hj to another boy. Can somebody tell me what to do if I should or shouldn't and why? Please this would help me out a lot! Thanks
Stryker125
May 20th, 2013, 09:01 PM
It's completely fine to be confused about sexuality, especially at your age. If you want to experiment with another dude, that's completely fine. Giving or getting a hand job, blowjob, or even anal doesn't mean you're gay or anything like that. Lots of guys do it, and it's completely okay. And if you don't want to, that's completely fine to. Just make sure that whatever you do, it's because you want to do it. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing anything you don't want to. You also shouldn't let anyone make you feel bad for wanting to experiment with a guy. It's probably just hormones at this point, but even if you do turn out to be gay or bi, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
Foamy
May 20th, 2013, 09:16 PM
You're just in a "curious" stage right now, which is one where you want to experiment with other boys. It's your hormones kicking in, nothing to worry about. One more thing, never do anything you don't want to. If you don't want to experiment with other guys then don't. Don't do anything that would make you uncomfortable.
Josh Morgan
May 20th, 2013, 09:20 PM
I'm feeling and wondering the same thing as the OP.
Magnus Bane
May 21st, 2013, 11:36 AM
dont worry about it. it is normal to experiment at first just do what you feel you should do. as long as the person you are doing it with is okay with it. best of luck pal hope you figure it out.
Cece14
May 21st, 2013, 11:39 AM
I agree with Conner
HockeyLovesMe
May 21st, 2013, 11:41 AM
dude ya it sux cuz u cant just go up to a guy and be like hey wanna make out haha but ya i like guys and girls 2 but its just hard to do stuff wth guys because nobody knows that u like guys and if they did they wld prolly be mean to u and its funny cuz there is prolly lots of guys at yur school thinking the same thing prolly haha.. we all need signs over our heads to say like.. ya id do anything haha.. well not animals of corse haha
Jake Morgan
May 21st, 2013, 11:45 AM
Let nature take it's course. Most of us don't know what's going on at 13. A lot of something... but what? Time will tell. From what I've read here, lots of buddies play around a little, and those who aren't wonder about it.
Toptoptop
May 21st, 2013, 04:14 PM
Thanks guys it really means a lot but ik for a fact that none of the boys in my school would do anything because I go to catholic school and they won't do anything so it's kinda hard to find a guy who will do something... Like I wanna do it but the only things is I do t want it ton my conchinse < wrong but yea...
justin 13
May 24th, 2013, 12:51 PM
Dude I go to catholic school 2, all my friends r str8 I'm gay playing my str8 role. They don't even make gay jokes, so Its hard 4 me as well to find a BI or curious boy. I found one, my neighbor and I screwed everything up.
Luke257
May 24th, 2013, 03:49 PM
Yep, life can be tough sometimes in that way. Sometimes I wish we could read people's minds to see if they have a crush on us or not. But then again that would be kinda creepy if they could do that to us. Anyway, your a cute kid so I'm sure you could find a cute boy soon. :)
sixguy6
May 24th, 2013, 04:41 PM
every body does it
sixguy6
May 24th, 2013, 04:42 PM
and by everybody i mean everybody
Cece14
May 25th, 2013, 12:42 PM
wait till your older
Hermes96
June 1st, 2013, 08:39 AM
wait for a bit. there is no point rushing into anything. try waiting for a bit in till your hormones settle down
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