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jimgriffin
May 19th, 2013, 06:38 PM
I really like this girl in my English class. I'm sixteen and she is fifteen. I can't explain why I like her so much because we haven't talked that much, but therenisnjust something about her. No, it isn't lust. In fact, my intention for this girl are not sexual. I just really want a long lasting relationship why I can love, hangout with, call, text, comfort, compliment, protect, and cherish her. I know it's not what most guys my age want, but I do. Do girl want real relationship when they're my age or are they al about sex too? I know some definitely are, but not most, right? Anyway, how can I advance with this girl? I've only really talk to her about the school work, nothing personal. She did wish me a happy birthday on my birthday though. I want to personally talk to her, but I'm nervous. I'm not nervous about talking to her, I'm actually very comfortable around her, which is weird for me. I scared to talk to her in front of her friends. I feel like they will hear every word I say and catch in to me and then tell her. Even if I do get over this, how do I start talking to her without it being weird? It will seem off if one day I just ask her all about herself. Any tips on this. My deadline is June 24th, when school ends. Thank you for any help. Of and by the way, she stares at me out of the corner if her eye, or so it seems. The will turn her head a little and look in my direction. Her eyes are turn towards me, even if her head isn't. There isn't anyone else she could be staring at in my direction. Does this mean she like me?

Croconaw
May 19th, 2013, 06:50 PM
She might like you, and she might not. You never know until you ask. Also, if you talk to her in front of your friends, she'll think of you as confident. It is quite normal to be nervous about talking to her. If you see her staring at you or making glances, it could mean she is interested. If you always talk to her about school related stuff, it definitely shouldn't be as difficult as you think. You can just extend the conversation from there. You can talk about stuff such as similar interests...

chezhans
May 20th, 2013, 07:07 AM
I think she hints at you but as far as I'm concerned if you want to go near asking the girl and "winning" her, then keep her in your own private space and don't make it difficult for either of you! Best wishes! Take the dare and see how it all goes! :)

HockeyLovesMe
May 20th, 2013, 08:52 AM
i think she prolly likes u so ya mabey talk to her more or go to the movies or something

Kuurachan
May 20th, 2013, 09:08 AM
Not all relationships are all about sex( thank God for people like you :] )
I think it would be a great idea to ask her to eat with you in a nice but casual place. Start getting to know her and treat her like a friend, but not tooo like a princess XD
most girls get the idea that someone likes her in a special way even if they don't try. Body language of affection always shows through and girls are especially observant. I know that when I had a crush( I was 12 <3 ) I couldn't look him in the eye, so I, for some reason, would always try to look away, though I was secretly hoping he was looking at me( puppy luv ^_^) ask her about her interests, what she likes to do and her favorite food, etc.
If in the end is not interested, there is still other girls. But don't give up too easily ;).
Actually, confidence is one of the most attractive attributes in a guy :)

Cece14
May 21st, 2013, 10:17 AM
Go for it!!!!!