View Full Version : What am I?
Toptoptop
May 19th, 2013, 04:44 PM
Hey I'm 13 and I have a issue. I don't know if I'm gay straight or bi. I don't have feelings for guys but I get turned on by them. I like girls but don't really get turned on by them as much as I do for guys. Me and my friend (boy) have been talking lately and we are trying to try experimenting with eachother just to see what we feel and how we feel. Can somebody just help me thanks
Harley Quinn
May 19th, 2013, 05:02 PM
Simple answer is, you're you. It doesn't need defining. If you want to experiment, go ahead and do that. Whatever you are though, you won't really realise until later on in puberty. You're 13 just go with the flow and see where it takes you. You don't have to be anything other than you.
Mob Boss
May 19th, 2013, 05:18 PM
Simple answer is, you're you. It doesn't need defining. If you want to experiment, go ahead and do that. Whatever you are though, you won't really realise until later on in puberty. You're 13 just go with the flow and see where it takes you. You don't have to be anything other than you.
^ http://25.media.tumblr.com/d2feadc4a8460cb91dd0bfb084be61a1/tumblr_mhnjs8OXsZ1s51zjyo1_250.gif Siobhan is exactly right, and basically said everything I was thinking, but in a much simpler manner.
I'm just going to copy/pasta what I posted yesterday to a nearly identical question.
I don't understand why labels are such a priority for younger teens these days, but I digress. The only person that can tell you what you are is you, neither myself nor any other poster on here can tell you who you are besides the one that made this thread. The fact that you're having to ask others what you are means you're still very confused. Don't search for these answers about who you are and your sexuality; they'll all be answered at the right time through self-discovery and experiences. You're still changing and developing. But if you think you are bisexual, feel comfortable calling yourself bisexual, then that might be what you are. Again, though, no one can tell you what you are besides yourself. If you want to experiment, I guess experiment, but be safe while doing so.
Cece14
May 20th, 2013, 10:41 AM
Ummmmm, You might be bi....
Magnus Bane
May 20th, 2013, 10:43 AM
dont worry about labels. if you want to label yourself it should be TJ. that is aal you need to worry about. You are unique to yourself and that is that.
Hermes96
June 1st, 2013, 09:02 AM
don't label your self but don't push your self into doing something you might regret doing.
justin 13
June 4th, 2013, 03:22 PM
Dude believe me u r just exploring ur sexuality, dont sweat 2 much. I love boys, older boys BUT yesterday I was chatting with a friend on skipe and we xchange some pics of girls..and I get hard..so u never know dude.
MikeSpace
June 4th, 2013, 04:59 PM
I would say bi, try to follow your heart!
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