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Croconaw
May 19th, 2013, 08:39 AM
Sorry for the swearing in this post.

I was coming home from school a few weeks ago. When I was going home, I encountered this creepy old man named Bernard. He is deaf and has a disorder. I am unsure of the disorder. My mom is friends with Bernard. He took me inside his apartment. After that he pulled out his dick and was swinging it all around the fucking halls. Again, I live in an apartment so surely people were looking through their door holes to see the incident. Well basically he did several weird gestures like licking his finger and touching his dick. After he touched it a certain amount of times, he gave a really creepy, and perverted smile. And he kept giving "thumbs up" like it was a good thing. He had touched my breasts 16 times. Yes, I counted there.

Well I had to go to court last week and miss a day of school. It was to discuss what happened. Police were at my door the night before. They showed me a series of pictures, and I had to tell them which one was Bernard.

It turns out Bernard had a criminal record. He got sent to a mental hospital. They said he was too 'mental' for jail.

I need to go back to court in September to have another meeting. Bernard will be there and so will my mom.

Just my experience. I hope it never happens again.

AzuPazu
May 19th, 2013, 01:15 PM
No offense but people like that should be locked up.. even if Bernard didn't know what he was doing or if he didn't mean it wrong or didn't hurt you (no wait actually he did he hurted you mentally..). He should be kept captivated until they're 100% sure he's cured. And he can't be cured then well.. I don't know.

Croconaw
May 19th, 2013, 02:32 PM
No offense but people like that should be locked up.. even if Bernard didn't know what he was doing or if he didn't mean it wrong or didn't hurt you (no wait actually he did he hurted you mentally..). He should be kept captivated until they're 100% sure he's cured. And he can't be cured then well.. I don't know.

I agree with this. He really should. Unfortunately, the police keep insisting that Bernard wouldn't make it in there. I really hope they put him in jail, but that might be rare.

Lofiel
May 19th, 2013, 03:08 PM
If you've ever been to an asylum, prison looks like a freaking dream come true. I do hope he is left in there for a long time regardless. It's horrible he did that =(

GeorgeBoy
July 19th, 2013, 03:03 AM
Wow :eek:

LunarScorpio
July 19th, 2013, 04:53 AM
Wow, that is bad, are you ok?

best of luck in the meeting against him

jayjay's toocool
July 30th, 2013, 01:44 PM
I've also been sexually molested as I grew older certain things just I didn't want to do so I know seeing him you don't want to do and the image of that smile burns in my head when you describe it all I can say is this is a safe place I am a safe friend that you just so happen to not know you but would like to Im hurt to and im sorry that this has happened but then again I wasn't there

Yugen
July 30th, 2013, 05:24 PM
Wow. That's crazy. I'm so sorry that you had to go through that.

wutusay
August 2nd, 2013, 03:43 PM
He surely has mental problems -.- He should be away from people , especialy from women lol

Maria72k
August 3rd, 2013, 08:36 PM
i think its that mental disorder you were talking about

Hermes96
August 13th, 2013, 02:12 PM
I'm Sorry you had to deal with this

Adam1998
September 4th, 2013, 08:24 AM
Even if people aren't aware that they are hurting people they still should be locked up
To prevent it happening again.

Croconaw
September 4th, 2013, 05:55 PM
It's September, and I went to court today. Everything turned out fine, as he's locked up now. :)

teen.jpg
September 4th, 2013, 06:05 PM
:( You said he was in the hall and you were in his apartment. Why didn't you leave?

Croconaw
September 4th, 2013, 07:10 PM
He locked me inside, and I was just panicking that I had no idea what to do. It's kind of stupid of me but I was too freaked out to think.... :p

teen.jpg
September 4th, 2013, 07:14 PM
Did he make you go inside his apartment?

Luminous
September 4th, 2013, 08:14 PM
Wow, that's awful :( Hopefully this won't happen to you again, good for you for speaking up.

Croconaw
September 4th, 2013, 09:46 PM
^^Yes, he forced me inside his apartment. He also handed me a cigarette, but I took it and threw it away.

^I hope it won't happen again, it was really weird. :P

Its Pretty
September 4th, 2013, 10:26 PM
I hope it won't happen again, it was really weird. :P

Sounds like light talk for someone who was sexually assaulted. Are you dealing with it okay?

Croconaw
September 4th, 2013, 10:42 PM
Yes I am. :D I'm just happy that he's locked up now. It won't happen to anyone else.

batwomr.smithshane
September 4th, 2013, 10:59 PM
hey jacinda I'm so sorry you went through that you can take it better than I did... well it was my real dad who raped me so I guess its a little different. I understand what you said ant the smile its the creepiest stuff ever

Its Pretty
September 4th, 2013, 11:10 PM
Yes I am. :D I'm just happy that he's locked up now. It won't happen to anyone else.

You may not have that satisfaction. Due to the way it's run now 'locked up 4ever' sometimes turns into 4 weeks in a cushy free home. Sadly that's how it is. If I had things my way someone who has been confirmed as a rapist would deal with a punishment a lot worse then being thrown behind bars with free food for a lifetime.

Emily15_xoxo
September 26th, 2013, 05:17 PM
that story is so messed up, I did laugh at the image of some guy swinging his penis around in a hallway and giving thumbs up lol, but it's not a funny matter, I hope all works out for you.

Katiya
September 28th, 2013, 12:31 PM
Sounds like a sexual schizo to me. And yes if you have ever been in a ward jail is a dream compaired. And staff arent all that nice and some are brutal. 'Prisoners' of the ward Can be rapped and asulted and no one believes them because they are labled crazy.
It just takes one sane person to end up in there by some freak chance and they can tell you all about it.

On the up side thats weird image of a crazy dude with his dick out in the hall. Kinda funny but scarry to be stuck there with him!! Sounds like they need to get him either some meds or put him in a prison. Cant have guys doing that kinda thing.

CuteFunSmartGirl
September 28th, 2013, 08:58 PM
Im ss for what happened to you.