Sexual Orientation

[jbentzien]

HI! I am confused because i get aroused and have fantasies by girls, but I also have the same urges for guys. I am not sure what this is or if I should share it. please help

[johnsmith1]

HI! I am confused because i get aroused and have fantasies by girls, but I also have the same urges for guys. I am not sure what this is or if I should share it. please help

First, welcome to VT. Second, you are not alone in these feelings. Many teens have these sorts of feelings growing up as we all grow and the hormones are running though our bodies. You will find yourself in time, but just take it as it comes for now.

[Appypollylogges]

Well, you could be bisexual, or you could merely be curious about both sexes.
Oh and welcome to VT :)

[Hermes96]

your at an age where your hormoans are screwing around so don't force your self into a label but if this feelign lasted more than 6 months your probly bi

[GigglyAbby]

HI! I am confused because i get aroused and have fantasies by girls, but I also have the same urges for guys.

Typically one may be gay if their sexual desires are only for the same sex.
One may be curious [classified as a Questioning Youth] if they have sexual desires for both genders and they have no idea or limited experience with either gender.
One may be bisexual if they fantasize and act on sexual desires towards both genders.
One may be straight if they fantasize and are intimate with the same sex.
There are some teens -- young adults -- and adults that ended up being gay because they may have lived as a bisexual or a heterosexual as a means to conform to societal expectations and upon self discovery they realized that they had sexual desires for their gender
Only you can decide or determine what your sexuality is as none of us know your experiences and the feelings derived. Only you should determine your sexuality as we have no reason to "label" you in any categories.

I am not sure what this is or if I should share it. please help

Honestly -- unless you've been intimate with others -- had multiple partners -- or had risky sexual activity -- have a STI or HIV/AIDS your partners need not know about your past. Since it appears you haven't been intimate with others -- your fantasies are your business. Does your school have a Gay-Straight Alliance, Gender and Sexuality Alliance?

Youth Resource (http://www.youthresource.com/) & CDC on LBGTQ teens (http://www.cdc.gov/lgbthealth/youth.htm) may get some online support.

[bugen4]

It is nothing to be alarmed about. Going through puberty, you are curious about ALL sex between men and women.

Don't be so quick to label yourself gay or not.

[ChrisFromKY]

I don't worry about labels. But if you like girls more and guys get you aroused I'd say you're just curious. Perfectly normal.

[justin 13]

JUst curious dude, dont sweat 2 much.

[MikeSpace]

Just embrace your natural feelings! Thats what I do! :D

[thecurious]

Just let things happen normally!

[Mob Boss]

Questions For Both Boys & Girls :arrow: Teen Sexuality
This is a more relevant area for this topic, so it has been moved. :)

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Don't even worry about it. It's nothing to worry about anyway. Eventually you will find the answer you were looking for.