What am I??

[cpkid09]

ok so today i was thinking hard about my sexuality and i realized i would rather be in an emotional and sexual relationship with a guy than a girl but at the same time i like girls sexually and am confused if i am emotionally. i think if i dated a girl i really loved that i could like guys and girls equally. what im asking is. am i bi or gay? i dont really wanna be gay because i wanna have a child that is biologically mine but at the same time dont wanna be stuck with a woman my whole life. i want diversity. sorry this is long and thanks

[Croconaw]

You're bi if you are attracted to both males and females

[Twilly F. Sniper]

Bisexual. But labels only hurt in a stereotypical society.

[Mob Boss]

I don't understand why labels are such a priority for younger teens these days, but I digress. The only person that can tell you what you are is you, neither myself nor any other poster on here can tell you who you are besides the one that made this thread. The fact that you're having to ask others what you are means you're still very confused. Don't search for these answers about who you are and your sexuality; they'll all be answered at the right time through self-discovery and experiences. You're still changing and developing. But if you think you are bisexual, feel comfortable calling yourself bisexual, then that might be what you are. Again, though, no one can tell you what you are besides yourself.

[curiouse97]

just be you. you are describing BI but if you want kids have them you don't need to get married!

[Dunce]

You don't have to label yourself, but bisexual fits you even though your attraction to both is different. You sound homoromantic bisexual. As for the future, don't worry, you're still young. But if you want kids in the future there's always adoption if you're in a same sex relationship, if it's not already legal in your country it hopefully will be by the time you decide.

[Appypollylogges]

Bisexual. But labels only hurt in a stereotypical society.

YES!!!
THANK YOU!!! :D
Can't people just be individuals?
Why do we need to box people into demographics?

[Magnus Bane]

dont worry about labels if you want to label yoursrlf then label yourself Jake

[Hermes96]

don't label your self just be you and if people can't take it then your better off with out them. as for the child i really do know how you feel i like boys way more than girls but i have always wanted to be a dad. wait in till your in a stable relationship before you think about ether adopting or having your own kids

[jayyy-lmao]

If you mist choose a label, I'd say your bi. But dude, it's your call.

[Elysium]

You might want to give it some time. Some people don't figure out their sexualities until well into adulthood, and some people figure it out before they even understand what sexuality is. Don't rush to put a label on it if you're unsure. However, it does sound more like bisexuality.

Also, if you were in a committed relationship with another man and the two of you wanted a biological child, you could inseminate a surrogate.

[Troy35216]

i dont really wanna be gay because i wanna have a child that is biologically mine
gay people can have children (with surrogates) that are biologically theirs.
and "not wanting" to be gay has nothing to do with whether you actually are gay or not. I know lots of people here say labels are bad things but sometimes that makes me mad. if someone DOES know what their sexuality is they shouldn't be afraid to say so or have someone give them a hard time for saying so or tell them they don't know cuz they are too young. I knew when I was 7 years old. eight years of pretending didn't change it and eight years of saying "don't put a label on me" only meant I wasn't admitting it. I'm not saying that is what is going on with you. But the OP is asking for help figuring out what he's feeling. He's not asking to be told he shouldn't be figuring out who he is. IMO you say your emotionally and sexually attracted to guys. YOu also say you are interested in women but you say you don't want to spend your life with one. It sounds to me like you are hoping you are bi so that you can have kids. like i said at the beginning of my post you can be gay and still have your own kids. Maybe you are bi, but it sounds like you are leaning more towards gay. Yes, they are labels but the thing to remember is either label is perfectly okay and there is nothing wrong with trying to figure out who you are. isn't that one of the things we're supposed to be doing during puberty in the first place? If other people don't like labels they don't have to use them but that doesn't mean that way of thinking is right for everyone.