How do I approach this?

[bingrewardsonly1]

Yesterday there was this big dance thing and I was dancing in the dance room for 1 hour straight and the girl I like was in there too. We are both in the middle part of the popular clique and my best buddies are in the top end of the popular clique. My buddies were trying to get the two of us two dance and she didn't want to. She was hanging out with her girl buddies and during the slow songs, she would slow dance with A GIRL. I know for a fact she is not lesbian. The funny thing is we were within 3 feet of each other and didn't look at each other. She knows I like her and we have been the subject of countless teasing and jokes that I know have made both of us mad. I haven't talked to her much since the beginning of the year when she found out I liked her. Now I am so confused. I like her but at the same time I don't want to like her because I know she is ignoring me like she did at this dance thing. It has been very awkward to the point where we have trouble looking at each other.

If I try to stop thinking of her and try to stop liking her I have hard time. What do I do? I am so confused.

[Danicks]

Never happened to me.. but it kinda happened to two of my bestfriends..
they never talked about that and then its never EVER been the same.
You SHOULD go to her and ask her if shes ignoring you and explaining what you feel, otherwise u will ALWAYS feel awkward if u dont talk about it.

Hope i could help:)


Cyaa

[Croconaw]

Well if you're worried, then talk to her about it. It will be better if you talk to her...

[bingrewardsonly1]

Any tips on how to start a casual conversation?

[HockeyLovesMe]

Any tips on how to start a casual conversation?

easy just talk about sports in yur school or homework or teachers or like movies or tv shows :)

[bingrewardsonly1]

How am I supposed to talk to her if she is talking to all my friends but not me and is super shy and seems to be avoiding me. For example she wanted to try giving pressure points to us guys and there are 3 of us spaced apart not in a line but in a group setting. I am in the middle and she gives a pressure point to the guy to the left and to the guy to the right but not me. I can tell she is ignoring me. How do I talk to her?

[Croconaw]

That wasn't nice of her. Confront her if you're not scared and ask her why she is avoiding you. Be upfront. :D

[bingrewardsonly1]

We are both the shy type and I know for sure she is avoiding me. She is talking to all my friends. I think I should just let go. How do you let go of your crush of 3 years?

[bingrewardsonly1]

Or how do I talk to her if we are both shy?