View Full Version : How to stop being sexually crazed?
Josh Schlacter
May 18th, 2013, 04:27 AM
I'm 16 almost 17 and feel as if when I'm horny, i'm a completely different person. I do things i wouldn't normally do otherwise. I masturbate like 3 times day. I often chat up girls from my school and i end up regretting it afterwards.
I feel as if it's setting me back from my goals and i don't want to be this person anymore.... help me.
exxer
May 18th, 2013, 05:34 AM
I really don't know, but you are not alone :D
darkie
May 18th, 2013, 08:31 AM
I know the "it's normal during puberty!" "all guys do it!" answers will come rushing by pretty soon, I'd agree with that and say that being horny all the time will fade when you finish puberty. However, I'm going to say that the best way to stop being horny / masturbating too much is to keep yourself busy.
Let's face it, sometimes you're just bored and then that happens. D:
Oh, and I would be pretty worried about chatting up girls when you're horny and all. You said yourself that you do things you normally would not do, so be aware of the things you say. Some girls talk fast and this might hurt their/others' perception of you. :)
Taryn98
May 18th, 2013, 08:42 AM
Sounds like you need to find a hobby that will occupy a lot of your time and put your mind on something else.
Josh Schlacter
May 18th, 2013, 09:39 AM
I know the "it's normal during puberty!" "all guys do it!" answers will come rushing by pretty soon, I'd agree with that and say that being horny all the time will fade when you finish puberty. However, I'm going to say that the best way to stop being horny / masturbating too much is to keep yourself busy.
Let's face it, sometimes you're just bored and then that happens. D:
Oh, and I would be pretty worried about chatting up girls when you're horny and all. You said yourself that you do things you normally would not do, so be aware of the things you say. Some girls talk fast and this might hurt their/others' perception of you. :)
Sounds like you need to find a hobby that will occupy a lot of your time and put your mind on something else.
So i just need to take up a hobby... Time to take up weight lifting again. Maybe that will leave me to energy drained to even think about it.
Thanks
HunterBlue
May 18th, 2013, 08:59 PM
I'm 16 almost 17 and feel as if when I'm horny, i'm a completely different person. I do things i wouldn't normally do otherwise. I masturbate like 3 times day. I often chat up girls from my school and i end up regretting it afterwards.
I feel as if it's setting me back from my goals and i don't want to be this person anymore.... help me.
I'm the exact way. I can't even think straight lately. I mean that literally. In class I have no idea what the teacher is saying at all. I'm in advanced placement so I score high grades, but lately I can't focus. All I can think about are girls.
I also chat up girls and regret it later. I don't want to be a jerk so when they see me again I'm still friendly, but I've ended up talking to girls you would normally avoid because you usually can't stand them.
I find once I cum I'm fine for about two or three hours. I keep thinking this is a phase I'll get through eventually.
HunterBlue
May 18th, 2013, 09:04 PM
I race bikes, box, and play guitar. That hobby thing wont work.
Josh Schlacter
May 19th, 2013, 03:06 AM
I'm the exact way. I can't even think straight lately. I mean that literally. In class I have no idea what the teacher is saying at all. I'm in advanced placement so I score high grades, but lately I can't focus. All I can think about are girls.
I also chat up girls and regret it later. I don't want to be a jerk so when they see me again I'm still friendly, but I've ended up talking to girls you would normally avoid because you usually can't stand them.
I find once I cum I'm fine for about two or three hours. I keep thinking this is a phase I'll get through eventually.
I know exactly what you're talking about, especially after cumming, i tend to lose complete arousal or anything in that matter.
paper
May 19th, 2013, 03:18 AM
lol I just stopped, I told myself I wasn't ganna masterbate or watch porn, and it's been exactly one month. I think if I can do it you can to
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