All please, please please help

[SmartGirl]

My boyfriend and I had sex like 3 months ago. We always used birth control, but I just found out that I am pregnant. Condoms are only 90 something percent effective against preventing pregnancy. What should I do? Btw im 16, hes 16 also.

[HollisterGirl98]

That's tough. Have you guys talked about keeping the baby?

[Swagging god]

Discuss plans with boyfriend also and I know this will be hard but tell parents or some relative

[SmartGirl]

Not yet, I just took a pregnancy test like two hours ago. I was on the pill and we always used condoms. After all our precautions I still got pregnant :(

[PinkFloyd]

Seeing a doctor is something you have to do right away.

[HollisterGirl98]

I'm pro life so I'll always say keep the baby. It's up to you and your bf though

[HunterBlue]

I'm the same, I think you should keep the baby. But the very first thing you need to do is decide what you want to do. Keep the baby or not. Then the next step is to see what he has to say. If you're both in the same page then its not so bad. But if you have different ideas then you're going to need to talk about what you want to do.

I know here you could easily get an abortion without your parents knowing. But if your going to keep it then you're going to have to make some major changes. And keep in mind that even though your bf might say he'll stick around, he may not.

I totally forgot the last part of your question in the other thread, and I'm very sorry. But, if I had gotten you pregnant I would be as supportive as I possibly can.

I don't know what your parents are like, but you may think about talking to them. It's ther job to be supportive.

Pm me any time if you feel you need to talk.

[justinglives]

Go see a DOCTOR or at least planned parenthood or a clinic.
Home pregnancy tests are not 100 %acxurate, especially if urs on the pill.
Have it done by a med professional b4 u spaz out.....

[justinglives]

Btw....pleease let me know?

[Wanderer_]

You must see a doctor for a more accurate test - do your parents know you are active? Or do you not need consent for the pill where you are?

[dvd333]

My boyfriend and I had sex like 3 months ago. We always used birth control, but I just found out that I am pregnant. Condoms are only 90 something percent effective against preventing pregnancy. What should I do? Btw im 16, hes 16 also.

Planning is key and communicate with your parents. Babies are expensive...

[johnsmith1]

number 1 is to 100% confirm with your doctor (if nothing else for the health of you and your unborn baby). You then need to sit down with your boyfriend and let him know. Next stage is to let your and his parents know. That may seem scary, and they may initially overreact and shout (most parents do!), but remain calm and don't shout back as for all the shouting and lectures in the world, it won't change the situation that you and your boyfriend are in. After all the stressing, I hope that your boyfriend and parents stand by you. I can't recommend what's right for your situation, but please don't keep this to yourself, get all the support you can.

[Josh Schlacter]

I don't really support abortions, but i think you're way to young to have a child. I think having an abortion would been one of the best option.

If you don't get rid of it, both you and your partner won't really have a future.

[Maras]

I think you have to born the baby. Don't kill him!

[Taryn98]

Tell your parents and go to the doctor.

[PLlove]

Those tests aren't always 100% perfect.

[ForrestGump]

Well firstly talk to your parents. I know that may be scary but it's the smartest thing you can do. Second off consider adoption if not abortion. Remember, the kid isin't alive yet. It's still a fetus. If abortion is killing, a blowjob is cannibalism. Next talk to your boyfriend and talk about it. Communication at the time right now is most important. You then need to talk to your doctor quickly and make a move (not to fast) fast. Good luck.

[phoenixboy]

please do not have an abortion

[phoenixboy]

I think you have to born the baby. Don't kill him!

please

[Loreley]

Go to a doctor, and after talk to your bf and to your parents.
Also, you must think very well about your decision. A baby has lots of expenses and responsibilities. If you decide to born the baby, your life will change. Are you disposed to do this? Of course, abortion is not the best solution, you will stop a life before it even starts.
And if you decide to born the baby, your bf must take up his responsibilities too.

I hope things will go better for you, let us know. :)

[BrandonA]

It's your fault that you r having a baby. You have to tell your parents sooner or later. Don't have an abortion please. Let the baby live. You can put him/her up for adoption. Good luck

[jeremy96]

abortion time

[GigglyAbby]

We can't tell you what to do and sadly all 3 options -- abortion, adoption, or keeping it -- will be different for any of us. Actually, there's very little false positive pregnancy tests -- so there's a slim chance you're not pregnant. You could buy another test and see what the results are or as other said -- go to a clinic that provides pregnancy tests and go from there. If you're pregnant from 3 months ago and not from 3 weeks ago -- get into a doctor sooner than later as the later it is could do damage to you and the baby.

[ForrestGump]

My boyfriend and I had sex like 3 months ago. We always used birth control, but I just found out that I am pregnant. Condoms are only 90 something percent effective against preventing pregnancy. What should I do? Btw im 16, hes 16 also.

Update???

[ajp1993]

First thing - Ignore everyone telling you not to have an abortion. It's not their decision. They don't have to live your life.
Second - Tell your bf. See what he has to say about it.
Third - Book an appointment to see your doctor (if you haven't already) It may be worth taking your bf with you so you can discuss your options with a trained professional.

Just remember, the final choice is your own. It's your body and your life. At the end of the day you are 16, you're not married, and you have plenty of years ahead of you. Bfs come and go (sorry but its true, especially when young) and you'll be able to try again later, when you've actually planned for it... If that is what you decide. But it is ultimately YOUR CHOICE nobody elses.