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jimgriffin
May 17th, 2013, 09:21 PM
First if all I'd just like to say in advance that I'm sorry if this is a little long. There's this girl that sits in front of me in my English honors class. She is 15 and a freshman and I'm 16 and a sophomore. I really like her. I don't know what to do about it though. To start with, I'll tell you the interactions we've already had. She will occasionally turn around and ask me a question about the work and I will sometimes do the same. Also, she was once paired with me for some work and her friends smiled at her. Finally, she seems to stare at me. She will kind of turn her head to see me from the corner of her eye. It looks that way at least. There is no one behind me so she couldn't be looking at anyone else. Also, she will sometimes look up at me when I walk past her to get to my desk. So as you can see, we aren't really friends, but I guess we know each other. I really want to further my relationship with her. I know if she got to know me I could win her over. I know it sounds lame, but I'm a nice guy. I want a long lasting relationship where I can talk to her, text her, compliment her, comfort her, protect her, and just love her. I'm not just trying to use her for sex. So how can I go about this. I only have until June 24th so I need to act fast. I would usually have a problem talking to her, but she is surrounded by her friends to it is almost impossible to get her one on one. I'm a little shy when I know people are listening . Even if I can get her alone, what do I say so I don't come off as weird? Please help me. I want a relationship with this girl so bad. Sorry again for the length and thank you.:)

alexf380
May 19th, 2013, 05:28 PM
I think you should maybe try and grab her after class and ask her then. If not, try talking to her some other time like at lunch. Pull her aside, ask her for a quick word, something like that.

Jakefortin
May 19th, 2013, 06:35 PM
You need to start talking to her, greet her and ask how she is. Just casual convos for now, if all goes well and the talking is in a good flow then ask for her number then just keep talking to each other, eventually you could ask her out.

HockeyLovesMe
May 20th, 2013, 09:49 AM
ya ask her to a movie for sure :)