My friend...

[Trickster]

Ok my friend i know well i met recently by another friend told people he was bi sexual a while ago. He is well obviosuly gay he not discreat or anything. Well im curious an we talk sometime when were around eachother and i want to ask him to well help fill my curiousity like ask him out to see how it feel like. I went out with a girl and i loved it but since well its puberty and all so i want to but he has a crush on like 2 others and i really want to try but if i get shot-down i will probably be devistated because i dont know any other bi/gay boys my age who are open. What CAN I DO!!!:confused::confused:

[myspace]

Just bring it up once.

[redfox]

do it

[Serenity]

redfox, please don't post if you're only going to post one or two words as that isn't relly helpful or constructive towards the thread and is thus considered spam.

[western ninja]

If you say he's open I'm sure he will have no problems discussing his sexuality with you.

[byee]

What exactly are you curious about? What exactly are you hoping to gain here, what's the goal?

If your friend is gay, that doesn't necessarily mean he will be open to participate in an experiment with you just to satisfy your own curiosity. There are feelings and issues that arise in any encounter, and it's important to anticipate what those might be before you undertake something that involves someone else. Likewise, if you're just curious for curiosity sake, (and he's not looking at it or experiencing it this way, remember he's resolved his curiosity and knows who he is, he's likely to develop feelings for you beyond 'curiosity') then it might be better to tolerate your curiosity rather than do something that might stir up his feelings and perhaps ultimately hurt him.

[Trickster]

You might be right IAMSAM but im not just doing it for curiosity sake but like i want to do it cuz i kinda like him. Im not going to hurt him im not that kind of person i wondering if it going to be the other way around. If you read i said i dont want to be shot down because i heard and it looks like he has a crush on 2 other people. Read my post more carefully IAMSAM before you say that stuff. Im also wondering if he is open and i ask him out or anything like that will he tell because if he tells about his crushes and that he is bi/gay then what happens if i do ask him?

[Attax]

You should probably, what I like to do, bring it up jokingly at first and see if it eventually developes into something more serious.

[ideasman]

What exactly are you curious about? What exactly are you hoping to gain here, what's the goal?

If your friend is gay, that doesn't necessarily mean he will be open to participate in an experiment with you just to satisfy your own curiosity. There are feelings and issues that arise in any encounter, and it's important to anticipate what those might be before you undertake something that involves someone else. Likewise, if you're just curious for curiosity sake, (and he's not looking at it or experiencing it this way, remember he's resolved his curiosity and knows who he is, he's likely to develop feelings for you beyond 'curiosity') then it might be better to tolerate your curiosity rather than do something that might stir up his feelings and perhaps ultimately hurt him.


Put perfectly..

[sabin22]

give a shot, see wat happens

[abusdbybronz]

kill him with a blade

[Sugaree]

Ok my friend i know well i met recently by another friend told people he was bi sexual a while ago. He is well obviosuly gay he not discreat or anything. Well im curious an we talk sometime when were around eachother and i want to ask him to well help fill my curiousity like ask him out to see how it feel like. I went out with a girl and i loved it but since well its puberty and all so i want to but he has a crush on like 2 others and i really want to try but if i get shot-down i will probably be devistated because i dont know any other bi/gay boys my age who are open. What CAN I DO!!!:confused::confused:

Well since you and your friend are both bi sexual you can openly talk about it without guilt.

Now who does he have a crush on? A boy or girl? But with trying to find more gay or bi boys at your age I can't help you with that one.