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xdShan3xd
May 17th, 2013, 02:51 PM
well I approached this girl couple of days ago and well we had a good convo I walked her to class ETC but she didn't really have any expressions on her face she smiled a couple times but idk So the 3rd time I talked to her she was with a friend I told her I needed to talk to her and her friend left but her class was right there and she said that and I was like come on lets just walk and we didn't argue but playfighted about her coming to walk down the hall with me in a flirty way tho like There was lots of smiling and laughing I only asked her to walk down the hall cause there were teachers 5 feet from us lol a little bit but it was playful and we were smiling and when I looked into her eyes and we locked WOW I felt something and I just said to myself wow I really like her then the convo went good and she gave me her number and told her ill set up a thing so we can hangout but this was the first time she was smiling and I saw her happy like that and it just made me feel good. I told her yeah I know its kinda awkward when we talk she said yeah its just Idk you But today I said hi to her and it was like hi with a smile but not really an expression and she tried to walk away and I followed and I kept talking but she just kept walking so I was like you know what im done im not gonna chase her but I like her a lot shes not a just another girl she is different and deff the prettiest girl in my school she dosent talk to many people but she has friends and guys think shes hot but they backed off cause im talking to her so is she interested or not? im so confused? should I just judge it if I set up a time to hangout? which I will r should I try to text her in a couple of days? Shes not in any of my classes and I only see her in the hall but she walks slow so she can be late sometimes so I catch her sometimes lol I just don't wanna come off as as a creep always trying to talk to her but I like talking to her we say hi everytime we see eachother and lock eyes but she never says hi when I don't see her Ive Never felt this way about a girl before. im in HIGH SCHOOL SHES A JUNIOR IM A SOPHMORE I don't want any other girl in my school just her

Lofiel
May 17th, 2013, 02:56 PM
You.... are over thinking this entire thing so much.Women hate that, over analyzing what they do... seriously you should get out of that habit already. Some times, women are just being friends, being nice.

Stop trying to impress her. Stop treating her weirdly. Stop acting like she is an alien. Treat her like you would any other person, and if it doesn't work out OH WELL! She's a girl you've said literally less than 10 sentences to and you're talking like she's the love of your life?

"In a flirty way"... how do you know that? You're assuming she was flirting with you because she walked down the hallway with you, dude? I must have had like.... 15 girlfriends without ever realizing it.

HunterBlue
May 17th, 2013, 03:03 PM
First of all, do you guys not use commas or periods in your school? Look into them. You won't regret it.

Secondly, if I've learned anything about girls, is that they can love you to death one minute, then forget all about you the next. Remember that wolf guy from twilight? Used to be a big deal, but girls don't care anymore. Justin Bieber was huge, but now its one direction. But eventually they'll love some other guy. She might have thought you were just amazing at that exact moment, but the next day saw some other guy. You know what? She might even like you again next week.

In the mean time there's nothin you can do so I'd just play it cool. If you do something stupid like stalk her or take it personally, then you're gonna give her reasons to not like you, but if you just keep being nice and give her reasons to like you, then maybe it will grow into something.

jak926
May 18th, 2013, 01:11 AM
Grammar. Even simple grammar helps. You kinda just raged on. That was confusing.

riverboy
May 18th, 2013, 12:01 PM
Do you have sisters? One day they are great and they next day they can't stand to look at you. Could you be reading more into what she did and how she acted? She was just being friendly and you thought there was more to it when there wasn't. She never wanted or thought of a you as a bf. Just go slow and don't become a creep or staker.