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xdShan3xd
May 17th, 2013, 02:49 PM
well I approached this girl couple of days ago and well we had a good convo I walked her to class ETC but she didn't really have any expressions on her face she smiled a couple times but idk So the 3rd time I talked to her she was with a friend I told her I needed to talk to her and her friend left but her class was right there and she said that and I was like come on lets just walk and we didn't argue but playfighted about her coming to walk down the hall with me in a flirty way tho like There was lots of smiling and laughing I only asked her to walk down the hall cause there were teachers 5 feet from us lol a little bit but it was playful and we were smiling and when I looked into her eyes and we locked WOW I felt something and I just said to myself wow I really like her then the convo went good and she gave me her number and told her ill set up a thing so we can hangout but this was the first time she was smiling and I saw her happy like that and it just made me feel good. I told her yeah I know its kinda awkward when we talk she said yeah its just Idk you But today I said hi to her and it was like hi with a smile but not really an expression and she tried to walk away and I followed and I kept talking but she just kept walking so I was like you know what im done im not gonna chase her but I like her a lot shes not a just another girl she is different and deff the prettiest girl in my school she dosent talk to many people but she has friends and guys think shes hot but they backed off cause im talking to her so is she interested or not? im so confused? should I just judge it if I set up a time to hangout? which I will r should I try to text her in a couple of days? Shes not in any of my classes and I only see her in the hall but she walks slow so she can be late sometimes so I catch her sometimes lol I just don't wanna come off as as a creep always trying to talk to her but I like talking to her we say hi everytime we see eachother and lock eyes but she never says hi when I don't see her Ive Never felt this way about a girl before. im in HIGH SCHOOL SHES A JUNIOR IM A SOPHMORE I don't want any other girl in my school just her

Croconaw
May 17th, 2013, 02:58 PM
She appears to like you from what you've written.

Lofiel
May 17th, 2013, 03:35 PM
You are trying way too hard, you're treating her like she is some sort of alien being, talking about your small interactions and exchange of 10 sentences like you've found your "true love" on VT... dude, just be yourself. If she gave you her number, you should have just phoned her and asked her to go out for food.

Women do enjoy some sort of challenge, and to be pursued... but when you pursue them after they stop pursuing you, move on. It seems to me you're making your few conversations and hello's in the hall way out to be way more than they actually are, they are nothing more than that.

It seems to me you are pursuing a woman who does not want you to pursue her and has refused to pursue you.