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Dimentio
May 16th, 2013, 01:52 AM
Well the title says a lot about me haha, I am a person who wants to be in a relationship so bad for a reason i will get to later, But either there are no gay guys around me or they just don't like me, So that leads me to internet relationships, Say if i met a guy of VT or Facebook or YouTube or whatever and we never really had a sexual relationship just a normal relationship but other the internet, Do you guys think that could work? I could see it lasting a while i think! :D
And now as i said earlier the reason i want a relationship, I am the worlds biggest hopeless romantic! My thoughts are normally always on love, I have dreamed out tons of ways i want my wedding or proposal to be, I dream up date ideas or what to do at home, If i ever got a kid and he/she didn't have a name or we made one artificially i have chosen names i like which you can see down below (I know their bad on the most part XD), Yeah i am just the biggest hopeless romantic to the point of it, Me being single physically hurts!
Soooooo yeah, What do you guys think of internet relationships if they were non sexual, And are you a hopeless romantic and/or know how to do with it? :)

Rayquaza
May 16th, 2013, 03:21 AM
I don't think there's any reason to get into a relationship at this stage of your life, considering that when you do you're settling down and planning your future.

I think that internet relationships can work, but not overseas unless one person is willing to move. I know people that have dated on VT and it usually doesn't work out as theres a massive ocean seperating both countries. The chances are if you meet someone in the US or something (as you're in the UK), one of you have to commit to move, just online video calls won't be enough.

And anyway, there are loads of gay guys in the UK, what are you on about xD

Lofiel
May 16th, 2013, 03:42 AM
I've been in a internet relationship with a woman for 6 months; and known her for 3 years. We'll be spending a vacation together this summer and moving in after my graduation.

Takes time, I'm the same age as you. Being gay does not change it at all!

Dimentio
May 17th, 2013, 01:26 AM
I don't think there's any reason to get into a relationship at this stage of your life, considering that when you do you're settling down and planning your future.

I think that internet relationships can work, but not overseas unless one person is willing to move. I know people that have dated on VT and it usually doesn't work out as theres a massive ocean seperating both countries. The chances are if you meet someone in the US or something (as you're in the UK), one of you have to commit to move, just online video calls won't be enough.

And anyway, there are loads of gay guys in the UK, what are you on about xD

I can't find any! D: But then if i do find gay guys they either wanna be women or are in a relationship! XD Forever alone right here ;D

Eric57
May 17th, 2013, 01:58 PM
If you are okay with having an online relationship and only being able to talk to them on the phone, Skyping, etc., then do it. It's completely up to you. Some online relationships work out and some don't. You just never know. And it's not really my place (or anybody else) to tell you what you should and shouldn't do.

All I can do is give my opinion and my personal views on it. Personally, I would never pursue an online relationship. Simply because that wouldn't be enough for me. I need to be with them physically. Not talking sex. I'm talking just being able to see them, hold their hand, etc. I guess I would feel like I was wasting my time. Unless we had every intention of physically being together, like one of us moving, then I wouldn't do it. It wouldn't be worth it to me. However, if you are okay with it, then go for it.