Gay or Straight

[VerizoniPhone]

If a man has reoccurring sex with another man is he gay?
Yes or no

[JakePaiv]

If its reoccurring sex, then I'd say yes.

[The LOLer]

Yes once or twice is fine but after that?

[VerizoniPhone]

I don't think he is. It's just sex.

[HockeyLovesMe]

pretty sure its gay haha.. not that theres anything wrong wth that haha

[Joshua2000]

Reoccurring is the main word here, I think you are gay. I mean experimenting is one thing but many times? For myself I mean I'm straight and I honestly cant imagine being turned on by a penis like that ...and then especially to do it many times with a guy. But it's okay to be gay dude dont worry.

[VerizoniPhone]

Lol not me! I am gay. It's just a general question

[DVNO]

I don't think he is. It's just sex.
If you enjoy sex with the same sex then you are most likely bisexual. You can't really say "It's just sex", if you are not turned off by the thought, or even experience of having same-sex intercourse.

[Joshua2000]

Lol not me! I am gay. It's just a general question

My bad...didnt read right. :P

[VerizoniPhone]

Ok let's change this up

My "straight" friend has sex with girls. But we have been friends for such a long time that when I came out to him last year I asked if I could expire meant with him. And he said sure because we were good friends. And he said I'm better then the girls he had sex with. He lets me do it every now and again. That doesn't make him gay!

[HockeyLovesMe]

he for sure is bi like for sure

[HockeyLovesMe]

labels suck anyways

[HunterBlue]

Ok let's change this up

My "straight" friend has sex with girls. But we have been friends for such a long time that when I came out to him last year I asked if I could expire meant with him. And he said sure because we were good friends. And he said I'm better then the girls he had sex with. He lets me do it every now and again. That doesn't make him gay!

Yes. It does make him gay. That's what gay is. In fact, that's the definition of gay. He enjoys sex with men so at best you could say bisexual. But he's definititly not straight.

I think there are a lot of bisexual guys in denial about their homosexual tendencies. They want to have sex with men, but still be able to say they are not gay.

These are the same guys who tend to get aggressive when its pointed out they are bisexual or gay. Ever hear of Wayne Gacey? He was a serial killer who would have sex with young guys and then kill them. He insisted he wasn't gay at all. He was out of his mind by the way.

Thats like saying I'm vegan. But I still eat meat. I'm a virgin, but I've had sex with lots of people. I'm very rich, it's just that I've lost all my money. I live in France, although I've never actually been there.

[DVNO]

Ok let's change this up

My "straight" friend has sex with girls. But we have been friends for such a long time that when I came out to him last year I asked if I could expire meant with him. And he said sure because we were good friends. And he said I'm better then the girls he had sex with. He lets me do it every now and again. That doesn't make him gay!

But that does make him bisexual, he obviously enjoyed it.

[VerizoniPhone]

Ugg this makes no sense. It's sex. Sex is sex. I'm gay. I'd have sex with a woman. Its just pleasure. That's it.

[wally]

Its not gay guys.. If it's just for sexual pleasure than its just a physical act, and a physical act isn't defined by "straight" or "gay." Ex) running isn't straight, and jogging isn't gay

[teen.jpg]

It's not that simple of an answer. Sexuality is complex. He most likely is gay or bisexual, but it isn't certain. I can run in the street and scream that I'm straight, but I still won't be.

So to answer your question, it's a possibility. Not a definite yes or no.

[teen.jpg]

Yes. It does make him gay. That's what gay is. In fact, that's the definition of gay. He enjoys sex with men so at best you could say bisexual. But he's definititly not straight.

I think there are a lot of bisexual guys in denial about their homosexual tendencies. They want to have sex with men, but still be able to say they are not gay.

These are the same guys who tend to get aggressive when its pointed out they are bisexual or gay. Ever hear of Wayne Gacey? He was a serial killer who would have sex with young guys and then kill them. He insisted he wasn't gay at all. He was out of his mind by the way.

Thats like saying I'm vegan. But I still eat meat. I'm a virgin, but I've had sex with lots of people. I'm very rich, it's just that I've lost all my money. I live in France, although I've never actually been there.

Sexuality isn't only sex. Sure, he could be bi-sexual, but homo-romantic, or some other combination. It's a complex thing, it's not as simple as you say.

And what you said about bisexuals is just offensive. Bisexuality is not just some label you use so you don't have to admit to being gay. It's as real as homo and heterosexuality, as well as all other sexualities. The only way this would be true is if a gay person used the label to help themself come out slower, which isn't that big of a deal.

[HunterBlue]

It makes no sense. I'm a total vegan, but I eat steak and hamburgers. It's just nutrition. Nutrition is nutrition. I'm a total vegan but I have meat with every meal because I really need the nutrition and protien.

Like I said, he's gay or bi. Just don't want to admit it. Of course it's sexual pleasure. But just how does he enjoy his sexual pleasure? That what youre breaking the distinction between gay and straight. who do they like to have sex with? With other men? Then he's gay. Throw some girls in too? He's bi.

What if he enjoyed sex with dead people and said no biggie. It's just sexual pleasure. So he's not a necrophiliac? Sex with animals and says its even better than some humans he's been with. Not beastiality? You're so kidding yourself. What it is that's sexual pleasing yourself is what is defining you as gay or straight.

Amazing to see this denial for real. Normally you only read about it but, wow..here it is.

[HunterBlue]

Sexuality isn't only sex. Sure, he could be bi-sexual, but homo-romantic, or some other combination. It's a complex thing, it's not as simple as you say.

And what you said about bisexuals is just offensive. Bisexuality is not just some label you use so you don't have to admit to being gay. It's as real as homo and heterosexuality, as well as all other sexualities. The only way this would be true is if a gay person used the label to help themself come out slower, which isn't that big of a deal.

Calling it offensive is such a cliche. Always used to shut down information that you don't want to hear.

EXACTLY quote my offensive remarks.
Where did I say bisexuality is a label so you don't have to admit being gay, or that it wasn't real? Go ahead. Quote it.

Here's a tip for ya buddy. Just because you don't like the facts doesn't mean it's offensive.

[teen.jpg]

Calling it offensive is such a cliche. Always used to shut down information that you don't want to hear.

EXACTLY quote my offensive remarks.
Where did I say bisexuality is a label so you don't have to admit being gay, or that it wasn't real? Go ahead. Quote it.

Here's a tip for ya buddy. Just because you don't like the facts doesn't mean it's offensive.

Umm, you brought up a serial killer in a discussion about sexuality. That isn't offensive?

And are you gay or bisexual? If not, then you'd probably never understand what sexuality is actually like.

To try to explain it, I'll assume that you are straight. Let's say you had sex with a guy. Regardless of whether you enjoy it or not, if you are TRULY straight, then it doesn't matter if you have sex with a guy or not. It doesn't necessarily make you gay.

[HunterBlue]

No, it's not offensive. It's a fact. I'm only aloud to bring up facts that please you? Did you write the rules of what's is acceptable to use as a fact? What I told you was a fact. What you need to learn is tolerance. Being intolerant of others isn't going to be helpful for you.

So....only gay people, and bi people understand sexuality? Straight people do not have that ability? Now, you're being offensive and prejudice. Prejudice means to pre judge, so you've decided that straight people just don't know. That's also discriminatory. Jeez. Imagine if I said gay people were incapable of understanding something. It's just as wrong for you to pull that.

And yes, it makes you gay or bi. There was a famous study on men who were "homophobic" and were hostile towards gay men. The study showed that when these men who insisted they were straight, were shown gay porn they would become sexually aroused. Even just a little. That qualified them as being gay or bi, so I have to say, I think the people doing that study have a lot more credibility, knowledge and background as to what is gay, straight or bi than you.

[slimboy1997]

In my opinion, yes he is gay!

[GigglyAbby]

I too hate labels and while it looks like he's bi or possibly even gay -- maybe he's at the point he considers himself straight because that's his primary interest or he's fearful to acknowledge he's anything but straight.

[jak926]

Gay would normally mean, sexually attracted to another guy. Which is kind of what that is..