why do good girls always fall in love with dicks and nice guys get an xbox?

[mattywiz96]

every time i see a nice, down to earth, smart girl i find out she's 'in love' with a douche bag who treats her like shit and is know for being 'one of the lads'. why do i always end up being the friend?

[SammieRose]

Matt, that will always be an unsolved mystery. Some girls are attracted to chaos and bad boys, kinna turn them on. For me, you better treat me right or you get my knee to your balls.

Be sure, there are some girls that will love the way you are, just look for them. And btw, if she were smart, she will not let him treat her like shit. She must have really low self -esteem.

[The LOLer]

Cause Nice guys like video games.

[HockeyLovesMe]

hey i love my xbox! :)

[teen.jpg]

Umm, because they like certain guys? You can't blame yourself, or the girl you're referring to for that matter, because they don't like you. You can't make them like you. The less confident you are, the less attractive they'll find you.

As to why girls end up with "dicks", it's because you can't control who you like. You can lie to yourself all you want, but you won't be able to control when love exists or disappears. It just IS.

[jak926]

Matt, that will always be an unsolved mystery. For me, you better treat me right or you get my knee to your balls.

Win?

[Stephan]

Nice guys finish last.

[Sasha M]

The title REALLY confused me.

[BWLC]

Because they love getting treated like sh*t.

[GigglyAbby]

SammieRose said it correctly. Just relax and be patient because you will eventually find a great girl. Not every girl will find a "bad boy".

[The-Chosen-Hero]

Because they are confident and show off more then your good guy. The bad guys are also more interesting too. SO I think.

[imcoolbro]

im nice to girls and dont have and xbox

[pamela1]

SammieRose nailed it on the head. My parents have told me that it was also true back during their time. My mother unfortunately knew someone who was in an abusive relationship but couldn't understand forever why she didn't leave.

And yes, my boyfriend is a nice guy and we both have an xbox :lol::D

[Lost in the Echo]

Questions For Both Boys & Girls :arrow: Relationships & Dating.
This fits better there. :)

[Triceratops]

For me, you better treat me right or you get my knee to your balls.

This sums me up perfectly!

Guess what OP, unfortunately girls can be equally as idiotic as boys.

[indoxyl]

Because girls probably dont see them as douchebags? they see them as decent guys who they are attracted to.
thats like asking someone 'why is she going out with someone who likes rock music when she could be going out with someone who likes jazz'
jazz is not my type, but rock/metal is. so i would obviously go out with someone who likes rock music
same as the girl youre referring to. she probably doesnt want a nice guy, she wants a guy who will act likea guy not treat her nicely.
I hope you get where im going

[MoonMan]

Same reason guys date bimbos with the personality of a used tissue, it just happens. You can't always help who you're attracted to. Don't start making up excuses as to why you don't have a girlfriend and start blaming the other sex so you can give up. If you do this, you have already lost my friend. Keep looking.

[Inzanethingy]

I feel your pain bro but people mist rememeber iys not just being nice it is also if the girlnfimds you attractive or not. Sometimes i go "wtf that scumbag is with a perfect girl and I cant get a girlfriend" It is fustrating but you cant just sit aroumd and point fingers.

[Giannaras]

I know how it feels like bro I see one my friend who is popular he swears on girls in front of them and they still want to go out with him just cause of his looks but I came on conclusion that we nice guys do the same we like whores if you see it from the other side of the coin for example I am looking for a nice pretty girl that want only kissing in the mouth hugs and in an extreme case give a bj but the girls that attract me I find out that they always want to have sex from the 2nd date or sth and that they have 4 boyfriends within 2 months.

[James Bond]

Many girls like that because they may feel safe under a guy who's known to be a Bad ass, they may also like not being chased. Usually, people aren't attracted to people who want them, they like people who act like they don't want them, I guess some people just like the chase.

[Cooper197]

This makes me laugh every time. Somehow I got lucky, not questioning why.

[Melodic]

I'm a good girl and I hate jerks, so it's not always that way.

[CyrustheGreat]

Nice guys finish last.

Yes, but bad guys cheat, cheaters get caught, he loses, nice guy wins by default, and gets the girl. Don't be a bad guy.

[steve102998]

i know what u mean but without xbox part from time 2 time

[CodyLeeK]

I asked myself the same question dude, and now I'm with an amazing girl.

[clueless_one]

Yes, but bad guys cheat, cheaters get caught, he loses, nice guy wins by default, and gets the girl. Don't be a bad guy.

I consider myself a nice guy...

Only if it were that simple. :confused:

[CyrustheGreat]

I consider myself a nice guy...

Only if it were that simple. :confused:

sorry, was mocking a direct tv commercial. haha. but if things were that easy, would it really be worth it?

[indoxyl]

sorry, was mocking a direct tv commercial. haha. but if things were that easy, would it really be worth it?

Probably not cause then the good guys would realize how easy it is to get girls and go for every girl they saw then they would ironically turn into bad guys

Also this whole good/bad guy thing is stupid. There are no good or bad guys. There are guys. Thats it. Just because you deem a guy as a dick it doesnt mean hes actually a dick.

Also just because youre nice to a girl doesnt automatically mean she HAS to go out with you like forreal.

If she wants to date someone who you think is a douchebag, then let her. Chances are the reason she wants to date the "douchebag" is because she has a million other things in common with him that she doesnt have with you. So all of you need to chill.

[Phoenix524]

Here is the answer you've all been waiting for! Ok lol jk.
I was once a "bitch" and I was "in love" "wit mah man." Aka: I was a hoe in love with a dick. And I'll explain why I did it:
1. It was hella fun for a while. Living in the fast lane, on the edge, I was never bored.
2. I didn't know any better. He told me he was the best I'd get, and I was naive and thought he was the best EVER.
3. Low self esteem. When he treated me like shit, I thought I deserved it.
4. At that time, "nice guy" translated to "ugly with no personality." You have to be fun and at least moderately good looking to catch my eye.
5. I didn't want to be jealous of the goddamn Xbox. I liked that my boyfriend at the time always seemed to put me first. I never shared him with gaming consoles. When he was lying to me, he was completely, intensely, in the moment with me. He was never distracted. He was full of shit, but I learned that later.
6. I felt like a queen because I thought he'd picked me over all his other girls. I felt like I'd won something, something rare. Nice guys aren't much of a prize.
7. I needed to get it out of my system. In the back of my mind, I knew he was bad news, but I just needed to date the total badass for a bit, just so I knew it was truly a disaster. That was my initial reasoning, before I got caught up.
8. I got caught up. I was pulled into the whirlwind of chaos dating a guy like that entails. The fast pace was fun at first, but by the end, it was like that scene from Pirates of the Caribbean when the Pearl goes down the whirlpool.
9. Everyone else is doing it. Peer pressure, you'll see this on every list of whys for every thing ever. So many girls were dating the bad boy and loving it, I was curious, and kinda needed a guy from that kinda crew to keep up.

So those are all the reasons I dated an asshole, in full, through the entire timeline of my relationship.

[AppleJuice]

Listen, I'm sorry the girl you like doesn't like you but why is it that every guy sees the guy his girl crush likes a douchebag? Is it because you can't have her and you're jealous? Stop making excuses for yourself, there are lots of really shitty people in the world and a lot of good people and you just need to be someone you love and loves you back equally because if you don't, you're going to be a miserable when you try to get with girls but they reject you for another guy and it's going to make finding "the one" a whole lot harder. Also if you say "Nice guys finish last" nobody will want to date you, and any of my friends who are girls will tell you that the statement pisses them off and if a guy says it after they break up, it just makes it easier for them to get over you just do NOT ever say that please. Okay, this was long...bye