Best Friend crush

[TheCoolKid1337]

So I'm bisexual and I have a big crush on my best friend, I mean like, school best friend because I never go over his house. Anyway, I've been guy flirting with him for a while to try to give him hints without actually saying I like him. Today in English we were joking around and he just stopped for a second and smiled at me while looking me in the eyes, then he stretched his hoodie over his crouch, trying to do it without me noticing (But I sooo noticed :)) and keeping his hands on it for about 1 minute.

So i'm wondering do you think he likes me a bit and if you ever do stuff like this with your best friend.

[johnsmith1]

By the sounds of it, he is at least curious. You could indirectly ask what his thoughts are o doing stuff with other guys. It may lead to spending some fun time alone with him, it may not.

[TheCoolKid1337]

If I ask him directly what his thoughts are about guys he'd KNOW somethings up.

[JonasBe]

Ask him if he wants to hang out sometimes after school. If he wants to you'll probably end up knowing more. If he doesn't want to you will also know more.

And you wanting to hang out after school doesn't necessarily mean you have intentions because friends hanging out after school together sometimes just means they are good friends ^^


Anyway... him smiling at you and covering a probable boner is a good sign ;)

[JakePaiv]

I'm going through kind of the same thing with one of my best friends. The only class we have together is Weight Training and Conditioning sooo.... I wish I knew if he knew about me (I'm still not sure my whole coming out thing on Instagram was seen by him :/ ) and I'd like to know whether or he's at least a little curious.

[Ethan1369]

I am also going through this right now there is a guy at my school that I really like and we are friends somewhat and he is in 2 of my classes and I have thought I have seen him stare at me a few times but I'm not 100% sure but I wish I knew if he liked me and the only friend that knows I like him and knows I'm bi is trying to find out if he does but nothing yet... :/

[Catholic Guy]

Yeah sounds like he likes you at least a bit

[Convoluted one]

i have huge crush on a friend and have never said anything. i would be careful, but you could invite him to your house like the other guys said .

[peaceloveanarchy]

Lololol same deal. I have a friend who i see almost daily that i've recently developed a crush on. He's soooooo cute but I'm pretty sure he's 100% straight... I would kill to fool around with him just once but i don't want to bring it up and ruin our friendship, even though he knows im gay.

[photojared]

before anything happens tell him that your bi, ask yourself if you want a bf, a sex friend you need to see what you want from each other at frist

[dontfiguremeout]

Puberty Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality. You'll get better answers here.

[JonnyH]

In my opinion, I think he likes you based on your story. But, I think you should ask him. That wil be the best way.

[Faolan]

This is my situation too, except my friend doesn't wear hoodies.

[Nocturnal_Insomniac]

Ask him if he wants to hang out sometimes after school. If he wants to you'll probably end up knowing more. If he doesn't want to you will also know more.

And you wanting to hang out after school doesn't necessarily mean you have intentions because friends hanging out after school together sometimes just means they are good friends ^^


Anyway... him smiling at you and covering a probable boner is a good sign ;)

absolutely agree with this. you could also ask his other friends whether he'd ever said anything about liking guys, you don't have to tell them why, make up some excuse (one friend in a similar situation said they were researching for a survey, but when they'd ask the person they like'd, he'd just stood there awkwardly...). Although, word of advice, if you think he likes you (especially of his friends do say something), and you guys are friends, do something about it, I've had way to many friends have mutual crushes blow up in their faces and destroy a good friendship, don't let that happen to you, it's hard to watch, and even harder to experience. You wanna talk, let me know

[teen.jpg]

I'm in the same situation (for the 2nd time). Just try not to think about it, and focus on better and more important things. It can only affect you if you let it.

[bimusic]

well i think he likes you but to be sure you should talk to him... maybe you could be a great couple