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ladydancer
May 14th, 2013, 09:40 PM
Hi! I need help with this guy. He is in my orchestra, and we are friends. However, he is also friends with this really awful violinist. She is mean to everyone. I talk with this guy, and I make him laugh, and we are amazing friends. I am not ugly. I'm about 5'9", with long wavy shiny brown hair. I weigh 125 pounds, and I wear stylish clothes that look good on me. I usually only wear mascara, but I already have long eyelashes. I have green eyes and clear skin, i don't have any acne or pimples. I may not be pretty, but I'm not ugly, and I really want this guy to like me! Any help will be appreciated. Thanks!
PinkFloyd
May 14th, 2013, 09:44 PM
Okay, just from that description, you sound pretty. just saying. lol. ANyways, you need to be yourself around him. Knowing that he's a guy, he will accept a date request from you to like Starbucks or something. I know he will because he's a guy, and I know how a guys mind works. I have one.. Anyways, good luck! :)
-Rob
ashdyn
May 14th, 2013, 10:41 PM
You're already friends so you don't need to get him to notice you...that's the hard part.
You obviously already have a good relationship with him since you talk and can joke around with each other. So just ask him to hang out sometime! EASY :D
Also idk why you mentioned the b!tch that he's friends with? Is she just a cock block? Does she like him too? Is he her only friend and she's territorial? Lol just ignore her
HockeyLovesMe
May 15th, 2013, 08:01 AM
ya go to the movies for sure or something easy
ladydancer
May 15th, 2013, 10:06 AM
I mentioned the girl because she is really territorial. She has tons of "friends", but they always say how horrible she is when she isn't around. Lately she has really turned the charm on for this guy, and he is always saying how beautiful she is, or how funny, or how nice. I want him to see that she is not what he perceives her to be. How can i make him forget her ans like me?
Xandle
May 15th, 2013, 10:19 AM
One of the worst things about being a guy is that you're expected to make the first move. Be flirty around him. Not in a slutty way, but know that you won't offend him with a move. Any girl that a guy could have an attraction to coming on to him is a huge compliment as it's usually assumed to be the other way around. Get it to the point where he's asking himself if you like him or not.
ashdyn
May 15th, 2013, 02:24 PM
Offer him a blow job lolol JK
....I mean that could work ;)
Just keep doing what you're doing and don't feel bad about asking him out on a date. Xandle is right you don't have to wait for him...lots of guys are stupid and won't notice you like them. Just ask him out to something totally casual :D
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