Bro questions.

[justin 13]

Hey guys, my bro came to me last nite with questions about sex. He is about to hit 12, and he is very curious about chicks and stuff. The problem is I’m gay. I don’t want to influence him in any way. I know he knows, but I denied every time he asked me about it. And I avoid any “experiment” or bro stuff. Well, I told him dad is the right person to help him with his questions, but he told me Dad is old LOL –he is 42 or something- Mom left us ages ago. and He wants from me to know about how to make-out with a girl and wanted to watch hot pics, or porn and I said no, porn is not good for young people. What is the right thing to do?

[Jake111]

Teach him

[johnsmith1]

Just try and answer the best you can. If you don'k know, say so. I wish I have all the answers now at 18!

[teen.jpg]

Ask your dad for advice? I don't know, that's a hard situation ...

[HockeyLovesMe]

ya u cld ask yur dad but i talk to my brother about it and hes 11 and i wld rather him hear it from me then from some idiot friend at hockey or something so ya u can explain stuff without being all wierd

[Magnus Bane]

I would tell your dad about it so your dad can give him the "talk"

[cpkid09]

kissing a guy is the same as kissing a girl so u could teach him that

[Foamy]

He's about that age where he knows that some things are hard to understand, and your being gay and answering questions about chicks is one of them. Next time her prods you, all you need to do is say something like, " I don't have the experience to answer these questions. Dad has to answer them for you" you don't need to mention the gay part until the next time he refuses to go to dad. Then you Should just talk to him and say why you can't answer these questions truthfully.

[riverboy]

Do the best you can and tallk to him and teach him.

[Second Chance]

Whether your gay or straight all guys are the same when it comes to puberty. What I mean is that your brother is going to have questions about jacking off, hair, growth, etc. Just focus on those things because your brother is going to need reassurance that he is normal and that all guys have the feelings he does and does the kind of things he does.

If sexuality comes up, then you can simply tell him that it is all right to think about girls. If you two are really close, then you can tell him that you're gay and that you look at things differently. That being said, you both have sexual feelings and deal with them by jacking off or something along those lines.

Let your brother do the talking and let him open up to you. If you do not have the answers, then be honest and tell him that you'll get back to him. After all, you have this place if you hit a brick wall. Guys are guys, and you should be able to tell him what is going on because puberty is the same for straight and gay guys. Get your father involved if you are feeling uncomfortable, but definitely help your brother out especially since he is reaching out to you.

[steellord321]

You should be able to help with some basic things and there's no reason he needs more than that at this age.

[Dimentio]

I am gay also and when my brother asked about this stuff i only answered some things, Like i answered on my views on sex and when/who you should do it with, I answered his question on masturbation and my views on porn, But when he asked to see all of these things i said no that he needs to wait longer and he needs to do it in his own time, So do what you think is right but that is what i did :)

[Maras]

Yeah, you should ask your dad for advice .

[chargersfan]

If you're gay, just tell him to be to a girl would you would want a guy to be like to you.

[countryboi9]

heck i asked my older brother about sex and puberty when i was younger, he answered all my questions and taught me how to jack off

[Cece14]

Um, you should talk to him about it how you feel a straight person portrays it.

[Hermes96]

i had the same problem with my cousion asking me questons. i got him to wright down what he wanted to know and i went home and reaserched all the anser and sat down with him the next day a spoke to him but i didn't go into deatails.