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taylor111
December 6th, 2007, 09:09 PM
im 16 and me and my boyfriend are serious... weve dated for a month or 2 now and we decided to try some things below the belt...
well we tryed with me and it just didnt feel good... like i felt him in me and such but i didnt feel the "pleasure" is there something he may be doing wrong or something to help ?
Hauptmann Kauffman
December 6th, 2007, 09:15 PM
Well, generally It takes more stimulation for a women. Just a minute of sex really isnt much. It takes a long time of continued stimulation to feel good usually.
Glasgow
December 6th, 2007, 09:53 PM
Also fingering isnt always going to be comfortable. Especially for the first time because it will be uncomfortable at first. Maybe he should try clitoris stimulation first
taylor111
December 6th, 2007, 10:22 PM
If it helps its like i get wet when im turned on... its just like i dont feel the build up or the intense feelings people tell me they feel.
Gumleaf
December 6th, 2007, 10:26 PM
If it helps its like i get wet when im turned on... its just like i dont feel the build up or the intense feelings people tell me they feel.
you also have to learn to find what feels good to you. once you discover what you like, it will probably be more pleasurable.
eskimogal700
December 10th, 2007, 08:09 PM
yeah try some stimulation of the clitoris it will turn you on more likely. sometimes people just arent in the mood, too.
The Golden God
January 1st, 2008, 10:59 PM
i would suggest stimulating the clit while doing the other activity to get more sensation
MoveAlong
January 1st, 2008, 11:37 PM
I agree with everybody here, but remember to feel comfortable with it. If you're nervous about it, then nothing's gonna happen. Maybe start with a massage or something or making out or something. If you're nervous, try things that'll relax you and will form more trust with that.
I agree with trigger a lot, too. Nothing will happen if you don't know what you like. Try experimeting with what you like or what you may like
MRSPOILED
January 2nd, 2008, 04:39 AM
For 1st Time Doers In What Ever It Is You Did May Be Uncomfortable ....at Least For The Time Being If You Continue Doing What You Do Them The Pleasure Will Soon Be There For Both Of You.
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