guys with girlfriends

[eskimogal700]

is it normal that my bf still masturbates even though hes in a relationship? does it mean he wants sex from me? should i offer to jack him off?

[eskimogal700]

thanks good idea. maybe we could just "fool around". like some fingering or something.

[irhmrh]

how old are you?

[byee]

How did you find out he J/O's?

Anyway, all guys masturbate, it's normal. I understand they even do it when they're in relationships, and sometimes when there's regular sex, too. It doesn't necessarily mean anything about your relationship, nor does it indicate a deficiency in sex with you.

What you choose to do about it should be based as much as what you're comfortable with and what you need as much as what you either thinks he might need, or what he has indicated himself. 'Providing a service' to him when you are not ready or comfortable isn't a good idea. and it might be misunderstood as well. He might continue to masturbate simply because he enjoys it.

[RaisingSand]

I agree with Sam, all guys masturbate, it's just a way of life for them, and it does not mean that you should have sex with him. You should only ever do sexual things with a person if you are both emotionally ready. Stand your ground and say no if he asks you to do anything you're not ready for. You are in charge of your body and your actions, and there isn't anything any boy can say to change that. :)

[Lifesreject]

Yer the other guys are right. And the wy you called it fooling around suggests you may not be ready yet. So wait until you are you have the rest of your life.

[Dolphus Raymond]

Don't take it personally at all that he still masturbates. You're not his 24/7 sexual gratification slave, after all, and guys get horny at inconvenient times. It's just how nature made us.

[BikiniGal]

NAh,my bf does that too,when he's horny,u cant satop some1 from jacking off!

[cdp123]

It's absolutely normal. I have a girlfriend and I still masturbate. Most guys masturbate. I think that in all relationships, talk about sexual contact should come up. Me and my girlfriend are on the same page with it, so yes she has jacked me off, and let me tell you...it feels amazing hahah.

[Tubbsyclone]

K the guy is ganna j/o even if u go ahead and do it. its totally natural. he does want to do u, thats just guy nature, but it doesn't meen u should

[Galinofied]

well i'm gonna go ahead and disagree with everyone here. anytime im in a relationship i usually abstain from going down below since it doesn't seem right but i guess each to their own

[Barin]

the fact is allmost all guys masturbate, relationship or not, and almost every guy likes to get jacked off as well so u could offer if u want

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

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