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MechanicalDoom
May 12th, 2013, 05:10 PM
I'm just wondering how I should go with this.. Okay a few months ago I told asked a girl if she liked me because I was supposed to see some other girl and I wanted to make sure I didn't break her heart or anything. Turned out she didn't, and I was glad so I didn't need to worry. Well I've actually still liked her all this time, and I sorta wanted to do something. Soon I'm gonna go on a field trip to a diff city (6 hour bus ride) and I wanted to say something like "Do you already know I like you?" or something.. And if she said yeah... Well I can't think of a way to tell her that I really wanna be her bf. I need to ask her while at the same time letting her know how happy I'd be if she said yes.

APhkinPanda
May 12th, 2013, 07:27 PM
I'm just wondering how I should go with this.. Okay a few months ago I told asked a girl if she liked me because I was supposed to see some other girl and I wanted to make sure I didn't break her heart or anything. Turned out she didn't, and I was glad so I didn't need to worry. Well I've actually still liked her all this time, and I sorta wanted to do something. Soon I'm gonna go on a field trip to a diff city (6 hour bus ride) and I wanted to say something like "Do you already know I like you?" or something.. And if she said yeah... Well I can't think of a way to tell her that I really wanna be her bf. I need to ask her while at the same time letting her know how happy I'd be if she said yes.

I'm a little bit confused, i couldn't exactly understand what you where going at. No offense but maybe a bit of proof reading before you post will help you in future times.

How It seems to me. Is that you want to try to get with the girl that doesn't like you? If she doesn't like you, then its not going to be easy to just ask her to be your GF. You need to start hanging out with her. Getting to know her more, so that she gets to know you. Once you guys spend a bit of time. Ask her for a date, example go to the mall, buy her a drink/dinner/lunch. Then just talk and have a good time.

P.S I'm sorry if i didn't answer your question, I most likely misunderstood. So post again and we can figure something out.

MechanicalDoom
May 12th, 2013, 07:53 PM
I was asking what I should say to her on the bus

CharlieHorse
May 12th, 2013, 08:00 PM
Tell her that you like her. :)

Croconaw
May 12th, 2013, 08:47 PM
Tell her that you still like her. But if she said that she didn't like you in that way, when you asked her. She could have been telling the truth and she doesn't like you like that either.
There is chance she could like you though, so the only way to find out is to ask her.

HunterBlue
May 12th, 2013, 09:38 PM
Yeah, you got a prof read that.

What to say in the bus? I won't say anything about liking her or having her like you or anything. That just stinks of desperation. You don't want to look needy and like a whiner.

Just be fun on the bus. Talk to her. Be funny. Listen to her when she talks. Be nice. Make her feel good. Make her feels special. Talk about whatever it is you do and by funny and interesting when you do it.

Show her that you're a fun guy. And a nice a guy. Someone that she would want to be around and and feel comfortable with. The all that telling her you like her crap will sort itself out.