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BebeFleur.
May 12th, 2013, 10:15 AM
I know, I know, it's the same thing all the time, "Just put him out of your life" but in my case I can't. I mean, pretty much everything we do we are in together: Gifted classes, advanced band, all-state/all-county bands, math competition teams, SATs, Etc. There is no way I can take him completely out of my life without destroying my academic future. I try to do things that take my mind off of him, but there is always something that will remind me of him. I know I can't ever forget him, but how can I stop thinking about him romantically? I am always thinking about him and I have really liked him for 2 years and known him for 6. I always wonder, "What if he likes me?" But I cant just wait around. My parents would never let me date, and I can't stop thinking about him. I just want to be with him forever and to make him happy, but that will never happen, unfortunately. I still want to be his friend and to be able to work with him, but how can I diminish my romantic feelings for him?

Synyster Shadows
May 13th, 2013, 06:02 PM
Just go on with life like normal. I had this huge crush on a girl I still see every day. Eventually, I just sorta forgot that I liked her. He's in a lot of activities with you so that's tough but you'll just have to let time take care of this one. It worked for me eventually, after a long time. It'll hurt but it will work. I've had 3 crushes so far and I've realized that none of them could ever work out but time's taken care of each one. Don't stress about it. It'll be fine.

BebeFleur.
May 13th, 2013, 10:07 PM
Time...what a horrible word. :P It's so hard, I think about him a lot, and lots of things remind me of him. :/ I just hope it doesn't take forever...I'll probably graduate before I forget..

Wanderer_
May 14th, 2013, 01:43 AM
You never forget crushes I think, I've heard mum talk about her crush from when she was 12 even
Just have to file it into the not for now box and try not to obsess

Synyster Shadows
May 14th, 2013, 01:40 PM
Well, I meant something along the lines of how to forget for the most part. I know one can't really forget completely. I still think about that girl I see every day, sometimes, but not the way I used to, nor as often as I used to.

Random, but omg, 369! Sequence of multiples of 3! :D

BebeFleur.
May 14th, 2013, 03:08 PM
369? Ohhhh.... That's cool :P I guess I just broke it xD

Yeah, I know I will never forget, but this is driving me insane. :(

Synyster Shadows
May 14th, 2013, 03:42 PM
Sorry, but the only way now is to wait it out. You really can't do anything about it.

HockeyLovesMe
May 14th, 2013, 03:47 PM
try to find another guy and mabey like do stuff with another guy and then u will like that guy instead of the guy that u like now :) crushes suck by they way when they dont like ya back haha