Need help getting over a crush.

[thatguyoverthere]

Hello, I've signed up for this forum just to ask this question.

I am 14 and I've had a crush on this girl (who is also 14) for about 2 years. The funny thing is, I've never had a serious conversation with her, I don't have her number and we never hung out! And the crush is huge! And I really need to get over it.
Well, she used to act weird like when I looked at her she would instantly look away, or we would accidentally brush against eachother in the hallway. But after some time, I found out, that she asked another guy out although he rejected her, and after his rejection I started noticing those weird things again(brushing, looking away). I decided that she is using me as a second option,(or hell maybe she doesn't like me at all and it's all in my head) which is not what I like. I don't want to date her anymore, but I can't get my mind off her either. If I do some sort of activity, I do forget about her, but whenever I see her in school or somewhere else - everything comes back. So please help me to get over this crush
P.S. Never asked the girl out, was too shy to do it.
P.P.S. I know all of this sounds so stupid considering the fact that I'm 14, but it's really difficult for me.
P.P.P.S Forgive me for any mistakes, I'm not an English speaker.

[Synyster Shadows]

First of all, welcome to VT.
There's really nothing you can do except distance yourself from this girl. Only time will heal this. I had this problem before and it only went away with time.

[Croconaw]

Forget about her. You deserve someone better. It isn't right of her to be using you. You need to avoid her at all costs. If you see her, how can you take your mind off of her?

[unnamed94]

that happens to everyone. in my case, i didnt even feel anything for her at all but i just couldnt keep her off my head. that will go away with time. if those activities make you forget about her then do that more often, and as someone else said try to distance yourself from her.

[Solvez18]

Mate, I know how it feels, I had a serious crush once. Not gonna lie here, it took me 5 yrs to get over it. I don't care what anyone says... It's true, but anyways. You just gotta give yourself space and keep your distance.

[AMGForever]

Try to avoid contact with her that's what's helping me