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Cognizant
May 11th, 2013, 11:26 PM
What do you do when a friend that you really care about starts avoiding/ignoring you and you don't know why? :-|

CharlieHorse
May 11th, 2013, 11:28 PM
Ask them maybe?

Abyssal Echo
May 11th, 2013, 11:36 PM
Ask him or her whats up

Stronger
May 12th, 2013, 04:35 PM
Could send them a message be like are you busy or something, maybe there person just doesn't have the time to talk. But it could mean a bunch of things.

Croconaw
May 12th, 2013, 04:47 PM
I ignore them back. However, my decisions aren't always the best... I'd suggest asking them.

nice
May 12th, 2013, 10:22 PM
If it was one of my friends that I see like in real life I'd probably be like why the fuck haven't you text me but that's how we talk to each other most of the time so I wouldn't suggest being that upfront about it.

If its someone you talk to on vt just ask them if they at mad at you or busy or something like that.

Synyster Shadows
May 16th, 2013, 05:03 AM
I ask them what's wrong, and if they still ignore me, I just give them a little space, like I would want if it were me in their place.

HockeyLovesMe
May 16th, 2013, 10:24 AM
ya ask them wats wrong cuz mabey they are having a bad time at home or something or mabey their gramma died or something and its personal and has nothing to do with ya so ya ask them and see if u can help :)

Roses_Are_Yellow
May 16th, 2013, 09:26 PM
Alright I get kind of weird when this happens (this is happening time right now actually...) I usually just sorta go on with my life and act like it doesn't affect me. It really doesn't help things at all, but my pride gets in the way and I can't be the first person to reach out. Like right now, I'm being extremely childish because I think my best friend is ignoring me and since we're friends on facebook an follow each other on Instagram I've been posting more pictures of me with my friends at school...I know it's not right, but I mean I haven't done much of it. In fact, it's less than I use to post about eight months ago.

Dimentio
May 18th, 2013, 06:38 AM
Just talk to them about it, It will be fine :)

Elysium
May 18th, 2013, 06:46 AM
Alright I get kind of weird when this happens (this is happening time right now actually...) I usually just sorta go on with my life and act like it doesn't affect me. It really doesn't help things at all, but my pride gets in the way and I can't be the first person to reach out.
This, except for me, it's not so much about pride. I don't reach out because I blame myself and assume it's something I did, so there's a reason the person doesn't want to talk to me, and I leave them be in hopes that they'll come back around.

In retrospect, mine is more of a visceral reaction than a practical one. The more reasonable thing to do would just be to ask if everything's okay and just check in with them.

Wanderer_
May 19th, 2013, 08:37 AM
Shower, definitely shower