wanting to date but scared that...

[greger92]

im almost 16 and thee only signs of puberty that have shown are a little bit of pubes above my penis. my penis and testicles are pretty small and im about 5'6. there are a bunch of pretty girls i want to date and would want to have some type of sex (but not intercourse) as in bj hj and like fingering but im afraid that if i date a girl that she will want to to do all this and i cant really show my penis or balls or else it would be embarassing. puberty is pretty lame kuz all my friends went thru it in like 7nth or 8th grade and i am now a sophmore.

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

Well, I dont thinkt hey would really care If you had a serious relationship. You'll catch up eventually, and then you'll be able to experiance the wonderful(and not so wonderful) aspects of advanced puberty

[jay92]

Don't be embarrassed about your size. If your confident about yourself then everything will be fine. If you flop ya cock out and your scared it will be a whole lot more awkward.

If your happy about your size the girl will be aswell, if she complains she isnt worth dating. Its not about the size of your cock its about who you are.

[Serenity]

Well you have two choices here:

a) Make do with what you've got a realize that any girl who doesn't understand that guys mature differently and that you still have a good 4 years to grow isn't worth dating anyway, especially if she judges you based on your physical attributes.

b) Wait to have sex.

[If I were you I'd choose b but that's just me. Something about minors having any kind of sex just strikes me as ri-freaking-diculous. Again, just a personal opinion.]

[hustlinrider07]

It really dosn't matter what ur size is. you dont even have to be bigw erect. you just have to look big erect. and if u have a hard erectin you will be o.k

[byee]

I kinda understand that you might be curious to be in a relationship and that you might want some action. But, i think you might want to also remember that the girl might have something to say about this, and if she's willing to get into this stuff with you, then she's also going to accept whatever your stuff is.

I think it's important to consider that sexual activity with another person involves another person, and that other person will have feelings, too, hopefully about you as a person, not whatever you might feel insecure about at the moment. If you choose wisely, you rarely have much to worry about.

[cubehead]

Well, if you want a girlfriend, then try to look more towards the realm of emotional connections rather than physical pleasure. If you're going out with someone and you think that they wont like you because your penis is small/looks funny, then you are going out with them for the wrong reasons.

The difference between a girlfriend and a fuck (can I say that here?) buddy is an important one. Don't go out with someone when the sole purpose is physical fulfillment.

[Rangers]

I stand at just under 4 inches and I will be 16 in a matter of weeks . Tonight , my girlfriend and I had oral for the first time , she didn't do anything to make me feel uncomfortable with my size or anything . If you are confident mate , so will she be .

P.S. I have some really personal questions I'd like one of the mods to answer . If that's OK with one of you , can you please drop me a PM .

Thanks .

[Antares]

Well everyone goes through puberty at different times and you are a late bloomer. Many girls wouldnt matter I am guessing but before you want to do that with people you have to be comfortable with yourself otherwise you will make a fool of yourself. So just get secure with your body before even thinking about that. Hope I helped.

[spazattack33]

well im freinds with a lot of girls and they tell me stories and they are usually like 5 or 6 you have nooo thing to worry about and even if she does care THAT much then i dont think that you should date that shallow of people that only care about size
:D

[MoveAlong]

first off lemme just say that your friends haven't gone through puberty yet, they've just experienced some things earlier than you have.

I really don't think that it should matter how developed you are as long as you really feel a connection between the person (and i'm not trying to get all lovey-dovey). But seriously, I understand how you feel, but why would it matter to anyone who you should like for a person and they should like you for a person, not just some thing to have sex with?

and i really don't think you should rush into sex with a relationship, either. I'd just try getting to know a few people...
but hey i know nothing about relationships so ask someone else about that!

but hey you're going to grow, it doesn't matter if you're a sophmore already, its all gonna come.