Annoyances

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There are many things about my sexuality that annoy me. Like people think that I'm gay in denial, or faking for attention, whatever it is. It's not enough for me to hate myself, but it's enough to piss me off sometimes.

Anyone else have those little annoyances about their sexuality that piss them off?

[RyanJF1]

I'm stereotyped hardcore. Everyone thinks I like shopping, and that I want to hook up with every guy in the room. That's probably the biggest annoyance of all.

In reality, I play video games and I have a boyfriend. >.>

[theatreguy]

My sexuality doesn't piss me off yet because nobody knows about it..... yet.

[steellord321]

Probly cause of your age, there are a lot of gay in denial "bisexuals" but they should really leave you alone about it. I think as time passes and you keep insisting your really bi, they'll believe it.

'Faking for attention' has to be the dumbest shit ever. I really doubt anyone does this.

[Lovelife090994]

Probly cause of your age, there are a lot of gay in denial "bisexuals" but they should really leave you alone about it. I think as time passes and you keep insisting your really bi, they'll believe it.

'Faking for attention' has to be the dumbest shit ever. I really doubt anyone does this.

What exactly is a gay in denial bisexual? To answer you Shy Guy, my sexuality it doesn't bother me, but I doubt there's a name for it... I'm straight but I don't have any desire with anyone regardless at the moment. What gets to me is how my friends think me as weird sometimes since I don't like anyone at the moment really. I feel more detached than anything.

[steellord321]

someone actually gay who pretends to be bisexual because they'll get less grief for it or they can't let go of the idea of a 'normal life'

[Lovelife090994]

someone actually gay who pretends to be bisexual because they'll get less grief for it or they can't let go of the idea of a 'normal life'

Oh was the answer to a gay in denial bisexual. Um, well, never met one. The normal life does seem to be desired.

[Bethany]

I hate feeling marginalized, and as though people would define me by my sexuality if I came out. I hate that some of the people close to me would think of me completely differently if I came out. I hate not knowing whether this little thing could fuck up all of my friendships. I hate that I can't talk about liking a girl or thinking a girl is cute without feeling vulnerable and marginalized. I hate the lesbian stereotypes, even though I'm not a lesbian.

I don't hate myself because of any of this, but it pisses me off.

[justin 13]

My sexuality doesn't piss me off yet because nobody knows about it..... yet.

Same happens 2 me.

[Joshua2000]

I wish people could be who they are whether gay or straight or bi and I wish it wasn't such a big thing. Like who cares who you like, its only like a small thing about you you dont have to tell the whole world. i don't tell everyone and there brother I'm straight.

[steellord321]

I wish people could be who they are whether gay or straight or bi and I wish it wasn't such a big thing. Like who cares who you like, its only like a small thing about you you dont have to tell the whole world. i don't tell everyone and there brother I'm straight.

Dude are u serious. You don't need to 'come out' cuz its assumed.

[HockeyLovesMe]

labels suck.. but im in a small town so i will always be "straight" haha thats why im happy i have my internet friends :)

[pineinchneis]

The biggest annoyance for me is the expectation placed upon me by others to be camp when I'm not. Also the idea that some people think being gay/bi is a choice really pisses me off