gay experience

[nicholas93]

i had a friend over once,and he asked me if i was curious and i said i guess. Then he asked me if i wanted him to suck my penis. I responed sure and i really wanted to i was really hornty. Then we had oral and it felt so good but gay. He didnt cum or anything but anyway my question is i like men physically but not emotional i like girl emotional. Does this make me bi/gay or what

[againstme]

Well if you were truly gay, then I think you would know it. I have many gay friends that like girls emotionally as well, but that certainly doesn't mean that you yourself are gay. It is completely normal to have sexual urges about the same sex, I know it happened to me and I thought it was wrong. Just be open to new experiences while still being true to yourself.

[RaisingSand]

Being gay means you are physically AND emotionally attracted to the same sex. Being young, curious and having all those hormones coursing through you, you had a sexual experience with your friend and it felt good, that doesn't make you gay or bi.
I would suggest not repeating the experience though, as that can cause difficulties within the friendship.

[Goth_ben]

yeah...me too. i wanna hav a gay expeariance but got no one lol...

[Maverick]

yeah...me too. i wanna hav a gay expeariance but got no one lol...
No need to share that. This thread isn't about your particular desires.

[jason2311]

if you are inteerested in having strong relationships with another male, might mean you are gay but if you are only interested in being sexual u are probably not gay because experimenting gay sexuality in the teen years is very common.

[hello12345]

hi i am new here but i once had a gay expence a cople of years ago i thought i was turning gay but i have stopped doing that what you shoud do foget about it

[what the?]

To be perfectly honest, you would probably know if you were gay. Physical attraction alone isn't enough to make you gay or bi. The only way to be gay or bi, is if you have an emotional attraction to someone of the opposite sex.

Well done to everyone who's basically already this :)

Ashley x

[byee]

A quick fact: 50% of all guys have a same sex experience to orgasm. yet, 50% of the male population isn't gay, so alot of this type of behavior is 'normal' and not indicative of your orientation.

(Source: Kinsey report, Masters and Johnson, The Hite Report).

[janj4234]

no ur not gay its normal for experimenting with friends

[Goth_ben]

No need to share that. This thread isn't about your particular desires.
sorry i only wanted to say that i fell the same way. PS. this probably means that u are like three quater straight and a tiddley iddle bit Bi:yeah:

[wolfram_07]

i had a friend over once,and he asked me if i was curious and i said i guess. Then he asked me if i wanted him to suck my penis. I responed sure and i really wanted to i was really hornty. Then we had oral and it felt so good but gay. He didnt cum or anything but anyway my question is i like men physically but not emotional i like girl emotional. Does this make me bi/gay or what

we're on the same boat, i guess.
well for me, i still consider myself not gay because....

Being gay means you are physically AND emotionally attracted to the same sex. Being young, curious and having all those hormones coursing through you, you had a sexual experience with your friend and it felt good, that doesn't make you gay or bi.
I would suggest not repeating the experience though, as that can cause difficulties within the friendship.

i ain't emotionally attached to him. i mean, there's no "love".. all lust.

[daking]

I have a simular situation. I am physically attracted to guys but not emotionally. I dont get guy crushes like i do with girls. I never feel any love or like towards guys, just sexual attraction. I crush on girls all the time but i am just a little less sexually attracted. I never felt anything towards guys until I started getting erectons.

Am I gay bi or what? I feel confused.

[byee]

I have a simular situation. I am physically attracted to guys but not emotionally. I dont get guy crushes like i do with girls. I never feel any love or like towards guys, just sexual attraction. I crush on girls all the time but i am just a little less sexually attracted. I never felt anything towards guys until I started getting erectons.

Am I gay bi or what? I feel confused.

(*Wishes there'd be a sticky on 'Am I Gay?*)

Listen, you're 13. All those hormones make everything a little sexual. You're new to this, those feelings take a while to get used to and to be able to figure out. Being turned on by some things male doesn't make you gay. You need the '3 A's' (Arousal, attraction and emotional attachment). Try searching the forums, it's been explained pretty well. What you're feeling is pretty common.

[tontonyeah18]

I guess you could be bi the same happened to me
i had oral with a guy
but i am emotionally attracted to girls

[Gumleaf]

tontonyeah, please don't bump old threads.

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